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I have a boyfriend. I will call him J. J, and I have been together for 8 months. We have talked about loving in together. There is just a lot to think about. I love J so much that I have tried to forgive him for so much. The first thing he did was lie and say he was a virgin. Then after a month of dating I found out he was online talking to men sexually. I accepted him for bein Bisexual. I was not happy that he hid this from me. He promised to stop. He said that I hurt his feelings and that was why he did it. He keeps going on sex chat sites, and hiding it. I told him that he needs to stop hiding stuff, but he still does it. He says he never talked to anyone in there and only watched. He says he feels bad and cries a lot. I he feels bad then why keep doing it and hiding it. I told him if he slips up every now an then I will forgive him as long as he is honest he treats me well otherwise. Takes me out when he can. Is so romantic. I have just about hit my limit. No trust is left. Any time I confront him he cries a lot. He is over emotional about things. He say he can not breath. Like he is having a panic attack. So I feel bad that he is crying, but I am also hurt inside. So should I stay, or should I go?

I just want to know why do men have to go on dating sites when in a relationship is there girlfriend not enough or doing something wrong is there a reason my boyfriend of 9 years father of my child would hurt me like this? Why do it if they know they will get caught... just why do it at all? If you love someone is this how they should be treated to feel ugly or less than a woman i dont get it