Search Results: getting over a long term relationship

Why does my ex keep contacting me? I'm confused?

My ex broke up with me about three weeks ago. He didn't cheat on me or anything like that or vice versa. It was due to a conflict with life/career paths (he graduates later this year and with his career, he doesn't know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think the west is losing its structural foundation and identity?

It seems to be losing it, we keep getting more laws not less, we question moral ideals that we used to acknowledge as truth and assert our values with confidence. Inspired by an economist and political commentator book I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me and my ex talk all the time... is this weird?

Me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago after seven and a half months (he's graduating college in Dec. and with his career, he could be anywhere and thinks it's morally wrong to drag me into something like that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did my now ex boyfriend break up with me for selfish reasons?

My now ex after 7 1/2 months broke up with me because he since he's graduating in December, he doesn't know what will happen to him after graduation. His career will take him literally anywhere in the country. He said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm afraid my paranoia will get out of hand and ruin my relationship! Help?

Only recently have I become really paranoid with my boyfriend who I've been with for over a year now. I've never been so paranoid in a relationship until him. Last night I had to lie down, close my eyes and cool down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Briefly talking to him; he is already wanting to see where "this" will lead?

He's a year or two younger. Went through school together, though he's a little younger that I. When we had reconnected, he had a business he and his (then) fiance' were starting. Legit business. Would have done well. He...

oldfashionedgal

Xper 5 Age: 57

I don't have much faith in long-term relationships?

I'm 18 and I don't have much faith in long term relationships...I have been through a few long relationships that failed, one in which was borderline sexually abusive (he called me names and threatened to break up with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help! He lied about his wife but not about their relationship?

I have been 'casually' seeing a man for over a year now. I use the term casually loosely as we were together almost everyday when we weren't working or busy with life. But, we were both very hurt from previous...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

How to know if a girl with a bf has feelings for you?

Me and this girl have been best friends for about four years now but in those four years (highschool) I was in a long term relationship we broke up a couple of months ago and I took some time to myself to get over it so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break up of long term relationship a stopping point?

Iv recently met a young (22) woman who I find I have great chemistry with. I believe she feels the same way about me as I do her. The issue now is a previous bad break up from a partner of 5 years. The break up was a...

Vinci

Xper 5 Age: 34

I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn't in love with me after 2 years. I can't get over him and I have so many mixed feelings! Help?

My SO and I dated for 2 years and we had a mostly fantastic relationship. Our relationship was the best either of us has had, ever. It was pretty healthy and we are great friends. We are unbelievably similar in interests...

Teledu

Xper 5 Age: 37

How can I get over the extreme jealousy I feel over this?

I'm really frustrated. I'm 20 and have never had a serious relationship. Believe me, I try but I won't date someone I don't feel a spark with or are attracted to. I guess I'm kinda picky. I can count the girls I've ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Move on or wait for him to heal?

I met an amazing man a few months ago, at the time he'd just gotten out of a long-term relationship and it was a messy breakup. He continued to be in contact with the ex because he thought she was pregnant and he wanted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice from the ladies please

Hi Everyone, Seems I am cursed when it comes to relations with the opposite sex, but here goes. I took some time out for me after my last... relationship (using the term quite loosely) and in the meantime I would do...

mick25

Xper 5 Age: 40

My boyfriend said he didn't deserve me? What does he mean?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months, he does have pretty low self esteem and has told me on many occasions his insecurities, like he's been rejected in the past and stuff. He's a very shy awkward person, he...

leviicommand

Xper 5 Age: 33