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Ok so this girl started working at my job in August. She’s a quick learner and a good employee. Never had any problems with her. She recently told me that she likes another coworker. She said he goes out of his way to do stuff for her and teases her (when nobody is around) and is really nice to her. (which is weird because he’s never shown any interest in anybody ever, always thought he was an asexual weirdo lol, he’s worked here for 4 years and has never been in a relationship not even in high school). he is extremely shy and awkward. The girl is shy too but more outgoing then him. They are both shy and awkward together. I will say his performance at work has been bad this past month. He knows what he’s supposed to do but acts like he doesn’t. It’s like his bodies there but he’s not. He works tomorrow and the girl doesn't. They both work together all day Wednesday. Apparently the girl said they both give mixed signals or something like that constantly. I wonder if I should tell him that she has a crush on him. (Maybe it would move them forward) everyone at work thinks it’s adorable that the girl gets so embarrassed and says don’t tell him LOL. They’ve been like this for the past month.

So a while ago my crush now were good friends with me and then he told me that he liked him a while later and I told him that I liked him too. Then we just said that we should keep this silent. And nearly everyday I was waiting for him to ask me out. But he never did. And ever since then we never actually talked to each other we only texted sometimes and that was it. I guess we were both shy around each other.

Then I wanted to start losing some weight because I wanted to be anorexic again and I kinda also wanted his attention. Then later he texted me saying that being anorexic is not good and stuff. And I lied to him telling him that I’m not and he said great.

Then after the holidays my close friend went to a party and he was there too. And he told my friend that he didn’t like me anymore because I was anorexic and I’m thinking that’s bizarre because how can you stop liking someone just because of that. Then she told me and I was really upset because I still really liked him. Then he was telling everyone that he didn’t like me and telling them to shut up when they said our ship name. I just pretended to ignore it. But the strange thing is I feel like he still likes me because I always feel like his eyes are staring at me at the back of my head and I constantly feel like he’s watching me. But my friends asked again if he 99 percent didn’t like me anymore and he answered with 100 percent.

But he’s liked all my posts on Instagram and I’ve checked and he hasn’t even liked all his best friends posts or anything so thats kind of strange. And he always replied to my questions on our class chat. Also in class he’s always talking to all my friends around me but me. I just look down and try to ignore it. Like today he took my friends chair even tho my chair was closer. Like he’s always avoiding me. But we never talked to each other after we liked each other. But always feel like he’s staring at me. Do you guys think that he still likes me or not? please answer x

So, I have a crush on a guy that is in one of my classes in college. He is a grade older than me and tends to be the "joker" of the class. He will constantly try to make the professor laugh with "stupid" answers and in total make the whole class laugh. He isn't stupid or anything, he just likes that type of attention. So, I started "liking" him when we had to be put into groups for an essay peer review. It wasn't just me and him though, it was me, a girl, him, and another guy. So, the entire time he barely talked to me, and just talked (flirted) with the girl and the guy. He was basically ignoring me for no reason even though I barely knew him and never even talked to him. While he was talking with the girl (who sits next to me), he seemed nervous (he was fidgety and looked uncomfortable). My first thought was that he was nervous around the girl he was talking to, but if he was nervous around her, why would ignore me completely? I thought he was attractive before this incident but this situation made me a little confused.
So other than that incident, he never really seemed SUPER into me or was showing me all the signs. There have been a couple of times where we locked eyes with each other for a few seconds. When we do look at each other, he never looks away nervously (like a shy guy). He often keeps the eye contact. In class he does sit diagonally from me so, he often tries to position himself closer to me. He barely talks to me in class (ignores me) and he sometimes just asks the girl next to me random questions like "what was the homework?" or "did he grade that test?" There have been times where I could see him glance at me while looking in my direction. Outside of class, I barely see him or talk to him (bad sign probably lol). He does this weird thing where the minute that the professor says bye to us, he runs out the door.