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Search Results: we are not in an official relationship
Is it okay to talk to new guys if you're not official?
I've been casually dating a guy for a while, like four months, with about a month and a half being long distance (he lives in my hometown so I still see him every few weeks or so). We've had the talk where we've both...
Anonymous
(30-35) How long should you know someone/ talk to someone before you decide to become an official couple?
How soon is too soon to start a relationship?
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend waited months to have sex with previous girlfriends but we did it on second date?
My boyfriend and I have very different relationship histories. He has never been on a date or "dated" as such, and usually had a girlfriend straightaway because he knew them beforehand. He's had 3 long term partners,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does his having Asperger's explain his behavior?
This guy I was dating which he has since said he wanted to stop and just be friends has Asperger's. Admittedly things moved pretty fast, as in having sex within two weeks and he told me he loved me after 1 week. He's very...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ex-boyfriend is mad that I'm dating his friend?
I broke up with my ex in February. We were in a relationship for almost two years. I started seeing his friend (nonexclusively) in April, then started an official monogamous relationship with him just two weeks ago. Of...
Anonymous
(30-35) A girl's 6th sense?
So currently, I've told myself I'm not going to date until I've reached a certain goal in my life so that when I do date a girl, money shan't be an issue, it'll just be me and her. But sometimes I'd see a gorgeous curvy...
CodahEinah
Xper 4 Age: 30 What would you do if your little brother killed a couple and ate their faces?
[Besides doing that they are a terrific and wonderful brother] A 19-year-old Florida State University student was having dinner with his family Monday night in Tequesta, Florida, when he got angry, stormed out of the...
Buldarman
Xper 5 Age: 34 Is following rules for dating and relationships really necessary?
My LDR Girlfriend and I have probably broken most dating rules and have the oddest relationship, but it's working for us. When I read these articles on how to date and monthly milestones and all that, I realize we've...
Anonymous
(36-45) Relationships which move fast - a recipe for disaster?
I'm interested in hearing people's thoughts and experiences. I have had two long term relationships and both moved fast in the beginning. My last long term ex was an acquaintance/friend. He was a virgin and never...
Anonymous
(36-45) My "Before I Commit" List
I think all of us (who have dated) have gone through that frustration of becoming official with someone and then six months into dating find out something that you truly would have not dated the person in the first place...
AaceN
Xper 5 Age: 28 When do we make it official we are dating?
I've been talking to my LDR girlfriend for 4 months, but we only met in person for the first time a few weeks ago. Due to the catfish these days we both were nervous meeting, so I thought it was more of an introduction...
Anonymous
(36-45) We were friends then we dated, now he's leaving, its complicated should I tell him how I feel?
My background, I'm 26 I've never been heart broken or in love before and have never had much interest in dating people until I met this guy at work. His background, he's 34 he has been in 4 long term relationships,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Having dinner and meeting her parents while dating, is she testing me to see if im long term material and how I am around her family?
So I've been dating someone for about 3 months now. We met online and talked quite a bit prior our first date. We live an hour apart, she's a single mom and works crazy hours and has random days off. She's been hurt in...
Armyguard
Xper 4 Age: 40 Should I buy him a birthday gift if we've only been in a relationship for a week?
I've been seeing a guy for almost three months, but we just started an "official" relationship on Wednesday. His birthday is on this upcoming Sunday. Should I get him something? I feel like it's a bit soon, but I don't...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal to not know each other's phone number or address in an online LDR?
I've been in this online relationship with someone across the globe and we've been talking for a month and made it official. But I don't know his phone number or address and neither does he. Is it normal?
Janeairpurifier
Xper 4 Age: 36 At what age is this a red flag/deal breaker for you?
At what age does a person having never been in a relationship become a red flag or deal breaker to you? I'm 24 having never had a SO and it feels like it's becoming more and more of an obstacle for me. At 24, most people...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I ask him to cut off his ex?
I'm 21, he's 27. We have been dating officially for almost a year. He had a very toxic and abusive relationship with his ex of 3 years. She talks shit on me, she has posted things to piss me off and try to break us up....
Rilakkumaa
Xper 2 Age: 30 Girls, how do you like the idea of promise rings?
like if a guy who you has been seeing for a while wanted to give you a promise ring and asked you to be his girl what would you think of it? its not a marriage proposal or anything close to that serious. its an old school...
Mr-Kabuki
Explorer Age: 28 Is this wrong for me to do or I have a right to do this?
So I'm with this guy but not officially. We have been an item for like 3 years... we first dated then kinda made it official then broke up then came back together but decided not to jump into a relationship right away and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever fell in love with an international penpal friend online or dated an online penpal friend?
Even though I usually never like to do online dating, let alone international online dating, I all of the suddenly fell in love with a female penpal friend from Spain (through who I've had nothing but nice and fun...
Anonymous
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