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My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?

My coworkers keeps saying my male coworker has a crush on me. We like to play around at work. We've been told we argue like a married couple. We've also gotten to a point where we were not nice to each other. My work did seating arrangements and we now sit next to each other. We get along really well now. Please don't tell me it's a bad idea. I won't date anyone at work. Bad experience before.
He comes to my desk sometimes. Even though he sits 2 feet away. We also talk to everyone else within the perimeter so it's not just us. He recently followed another coworker on social media (she has a boyfriend and she's 19). I personally think he's attracted to her (but she doesn't think so) Recently I did something creative and drew pictures of everyone. He posted my drawing of him on social media. Everyone thinks that's some type of sign he digs me. He comes to my desk and looks at my photos on my wall. However when he looked at my pictures he literally looks at them by laying his body across my desk in front of me. He then points to one picture and says this is cute.
Now my coworker is quirky and he talks to EVERYONE. He approaches others and he's curious in nature. So I feel like everyone is fantasizing us both. We are just both very friendly and sociable/comfortable with people. However he's going through a divorce and has children. I don't want these rumors going around. So after work I told him hey our coworkers are spreading rumors right now. They're trying to set you, another co-worker (one that has bf) and I up and think we have a thing. You should tell them you have a girlfriend to like nip it and stop it. He's like what gf? I don't have one. I'm just like yeah make it up or something. He's like well maybe we should make it a double date. I'm like huh? I don't get it. Just say you have a girlfriend. However I did it in a nice manner of course. How do I stop the rumors? I really do not think he likes me like that but everyone else is convinced. What should I do?

My male coworker and I had feelings for each other. We never met by ourselves. Earlier this year, I finally confessed to him. he admitted too and said he can see us together but it’s difficult as he is in complicated relationship. I stepped away. Its been 6 months. I recently heard him telling that he has bought a place for himself. He was living with his girlfriend before. He hasn’t mentioned about breaking up though.

Now, he asks me questions which seem unnecessary. For example, Last week, I went to conference with another male colleague to another city and he asked if we went out together there. Before leaving for conference, he had asked if the other guy and I are staying at the same hotel.
I want to know why he seems so curious now and asks me all these questions. Please help.