Search Results: dating a virgin

I'll get straight to it. I'm a 28 years old man living in India. By looks i'm OK and having a respected profession, 1-2 girls have told me that i'm marriage material. and when i tell them i'm a virgin they get kind of shocked. Being honest, i'm searching for a lady who is a virgin. i was dating one 2 years back and i tried reasoning with myself to accept her even if she was not but couldn't. I was busy for the last 1.5years in my job, and a similar thing happened 5 months back with one more girl (Both were thinking of relation with me). but now i got the time to think about it, in depth, and realized i can't accept someone who is even a half virgin because I myself am waiting for her and if it doesn't get reciprocated i'm not going to feel respected & honored in that relation. I also know from all my friends (Male & Female) YOU ALLWAYS REMEMBER THE FIRST ONE, so that is a half committed relation, I'm absolutely not like that.

But now i'm looking for a lady, my hopes are the ever lowest in life. Her past is one of the major Red Flags for relationship, I also have few other. It tells me a lot about her Values & Principles. So i just want to know how many ladies out there, globally, are some what similar to me in this aspect.

Please don't judge me as there are lots of other thing about me that you don't know. and I'm not one of those illogical conservatives who think that a woman shouldn't be perusing a passion or a job or such. I dont support the typical misogynistic mindset & i also dont support feminist. i'm some where in the middle.

And please give me your opinion or questions or whatever you want to on this topic or even related to it. I'll take this opportunity to understand the thought process and patterns of general female population.

It will be very much appreciated if you can give me your Age, Country & Why you chose what you chose, along with the poll.

I'm tired of people bitching about other people's dating standards. People can have whatever dating standards they want, nobody is entitled to anyone's love and nobody is obligated to give their love to anyone. I don't care if a woman wants a guy above 6'2 or if a guy wants a virgin, if that person feels like that's what will make them happy, let them look for what makes them happy. The only time I have a problem with it is when they degrade people who don't reach their standards, like a woman calling men under 6'2 manlets and a guy calling non virgin women hoes, but it's not their standards that annoys me, it's the fact that their being a cunt about it is.

People in today's world act so entitled when it comes to dating, the way people berate and pressure people for their dating standards. They get rejected and takes it so personal, as if the person who rejected them was obligated to give themselves to them and didn't fulfill that task, as if there isn't anyone else in the world that would take them.

What I'm trying to say is that you can have whatever dating standards you want. Even if they're totally unrealistic it's yours to have, as long as you feel that it would make you truly happy.