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We used to be friends with benefits, he said he didn’t want a girlfriend but also asked me to spend the night. The friends with benefits lasted for a month or so but I got back with my ex boyfriend. He unadded me. 1 year later, we haven’t talked but I’ve missed him and my ex and I broke up (for good). If it were you, and I readded you on snap, would you add me back? Would you want to be friends or hook up or date? Or hate me?

i really care about him.

I am scared of being alone atm and can't make the right decision. I am in college, want to be a dentist. He says he is changed and made a mistake. I am confused and way too kind and forgiving. And I feel like I deserve better, especially after I found out that he was talking to two other girls behind my back. He broke up with one of them in front of my nose.. After that we broke up because of something else..

Cons:
He wants to marry me even though we do not know eachother well... just a months or two..
I am constantly stressed, anxious and have so many doubts when I think of a serious relationship with him
I am annoyed when we talking
I feel like I am settling with him
I caught him talking to his side chicks behind my back
I think I am not his number one option
We communicate through google translate cause he does not speak English..
He has no money, no savings
Always works no free time
He has not finished primary school
Does not know how to communicate or keep a conversation going
He is two tears younger than I am
Smokes and makes a fuss about quiting right away.

pros:
Good looking
He is sweet
Hard working
Tall
And he was romantic the first 2 dates.. but he told me that because his friends helped him..
Same religion

I began speaking to him on a dating app earlier last week. I didn’t answer consistently at first cuz he wasn’t asking questions and was basic. I was blunt with him about it going no where and the conversation picked up. We are scheduled to have lunch this weekend and meet up.

He told me at 1st that he was looking to meet new people and see where it went. I said I wanted the same but I don’t like hookups. And he said he’d prefer to not hook up either but isn’t opposed to it if it ever came up.

He has bad relationship history (cheating ex’s) and I mentioned that I have trust issues too (as a joke). And he said he hates dating and isn’t in the state of mind to date. And I asked him what he defined as dating. He said having a girlfriend.

So I asked again if all he wanted was a hook up and he said no. He is open to meeting someone to date/be in a relationship with. He is taking it as it comes apparently.


We have spoken via Snapchat everyday and he has never said anything inappropriate or implying he wants sex so far. The only thing that stands out is: he has 2 shirtless pics on his dating app AND goes to bed super early on the weekdays. Like 9:00 AM. For “work”. I’d say it’s because he probably has a girlfriend lol