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The man has got a point here...

I hold myself as an example if you give a woman crap, she will multiply it and throw it back. Be careful what you give her! Some of you don't know that because you aren't sticking around long enough to get what you are creating:) In some ways... I guess a woman is an amplifier!

In regards to men, a woman gives us crap, we try to throw it away. We like to build stuff... but we also like to blow it up! Oh come on... you know you'd like to get your hands on some Tanerite and blow up an old dishwasher for the heck of it!

From my dating experience, I've come to the conclusion that arguing doesn't settle much of anything. It only causes resentment and and kills the romance. If a woman is being bitchy, disrespectful, or rude to me, then I'll simply tell her she's acting ridiculous and I'm not going to talk to her when she's like this and let her know it's not okay to talk to me this way. Then I'll walk away from the situation. Most of the time, she will come back with a better attitude, even apologizing, and actually talk to come towards a solution rather than just blow off steam and get her point across. It took me a lot of years to figure this out lol. I've never been one to back down from an argument or fight, but in a relationship it's different and you have to realize that it's more complex than just winning a battle. It's about winning the war. Chess, not checkers.

Back in 2013, I met this girl at work who blew me away, and after some time we got to know each other. I wanted to ask her out, but I am an athiest and she was a Mormon, so I didn't. But after a few months I decided to finally ask her out
After some casual dating, I left the company and we had a falling out. A few month later, she reached out to me, and we started dating. We we're exclusive for 6 months before she broke us up because of the religious issues. That was in June of 2014.
By November of 2015 I couldn't ignore temptations and lack of closure, and I reached out and had a conversation, and it didn't go well, she didn't want anything to do with me, and was moving to a Mormon school out of state.
In June of 2016, she reached out to me and we started dating again, and it was something wonderful. But we broke up because she left on a mission, and she said she couldn't be with me anymore.
In July of 2018 she came home, and I ran into her in September, and had a very similar conversation as we did in November of 15. She said things were over and we haven't seen each other since.
She's always battled the religious stuff and me. She gets closer to the church, she gets rid of me, then gets closer to me. It's a cycle. But, is this battle over and I've lost?

"Sometimes love will bloom in the springtime
Then like flowers in summer it will grow
And then fade away in the winter
When the cold winds begin to blow
But when it's evergreen, evergreen
It will last through the summer and winter too "