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I honestly highly doubt it. I think the only difference would be instead of being rejected just as often they also would have to deal with constantly being overlooked for the same boys who already normally get the girls. ultimately, only a select few shy guys would benefit from it, as they already do.

So, I have thought this guy likes me and it seemed obvious... the way he acted toward me and the way his friends would act around me..
He told my friend (after she asked) that he didn't know me enough to like me but he still acted the same and would staaaare and he even winked once.. he would talk about "girls" (I overheard) with his friends but wouldn't give a name, age, what she looks like, etc. And then would stare at me when he was done. This was all last year. This year he's been acting very infatuated. Today, I was walking passed his group of friends to go to my locker and they were all talking together (suddenly quieter) and I heard my name. Also, today he was playing music over the loud speaker in the gym and he played this song that I would talk about how much I loved, he played one that a guy was talking about loving this girl and not being able to talk to her, and he played other ones that I love a lot.
So what's the deal?

Say you're really int this girl and want to be with her in a relationship. and she feels the same. she loves cuddling and brought it up bc she wante to make sure you on the same page. you hate it or dslike it but want to date her and know its a deal breaker. would you be honest and accept that you won't be togeth, or would you like hoping things will just sort themselves out, or shell be so into yo shell give up cuddling?

i ask bc i see lots of situations where people end up in relationhips with people they clearly should not be with. I know some guys may want it but like to complain about cuddling bc it makes them feel tough, so thats not a good indication of how they really feel. im guessing other guys pretend to like it when they dont. i wonder if its bc sometimes people lie to get the guy or girl. in tihs case girl bc im a girl.

anyhow cuddling is important to me but im already shy about i, so i dont want to end up wioth a guy who is going to get pissed off if i ever try to touch him.. and i wonder how much i can trust a guy saying he's into it, or how likely it is hed lie. yeh a good litmus test is to do i and see the reaction, but as i say im really shy physically itd take me a loooong ass time to work up to that. By the time i find out he's not into it i could have wasted a lot of time. plus then we gotta break up. lots of drama avoided if i can count on just saying my preference and relying on him to be honest. so, just wondering.

saw someone wearing a shirt saying ' i like to spoon' i guess i coold do something like that, and possibly repel guys who are not into physical affection, without having to ever raise it.