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I have already met my soulmate who i can never be together with and we aren't in contact anymore. He helped me and i helped him and our roles in each other's lives are over. So i don't have to worry about "the one"
The biggest deal breaker in a relationship for me is cheating and i have always advised a break up if your SO cheats. Cheating is the same reason why i am scared to be in a relationship too. It seems that many people here and irl supports cheating too. I had a guy tell me he will pour sulphuric acid on to my face because i asked a girl to break up with her cheating boyfriend. I know a female user here who everyone compliments on how she's such a submissive good girlfriend while she's flirting and sexting her guy friend. Even some of my friends in committed relations talk about new crushes and flirting with hot losers.(They say it's for fun)
Whenever i express my hatred towards cheating, people ask "Did you get cheated on or something?". Obviously i did not. But i feel like what they're saying is i don't have the right to be upset about cheating.
Anyway i got a player guy who have always wanted to "date" me since i am not easy and i am 99.9% sure he will cheat. So if i date him and when he cheats, i may finally be able to get rid of my fear. Once i become immune, i believe that i won't be always thinking if my future SO (someone i love) is cheating and even if he is, I would be used to it.
You would feel like i am being a hypocrite rn so i will stop expressing my anger towards cheating and such questions from this moment onwards. And yes i am alright being a miserable girl who would probably be pitied on (Ik i need help🤷‍♀️).

I have watched this happen so many times! Many of the prettiest women I know get attacked by people because they look too pretty or too happy.

One of the prettiest and happiest looking ladies I know suffers from Lupus, is in constant pain, and cuts herself. But, because she is pretty and always smiling people pick her out to attack and insult. Customers will single her out and pass everyone she works with just to yell at her. A mutual friend once told her that she is too pretty so everyone hates her.

I'm pretty. Millions of men want me. I'm intelligent, successful, fun, funny, well mannered, and look like I'm just better than most people. Many people have told me I seem untouchable so they stay away thinking I'm too good for them. I've had multiple exes and "friends" and strangers take out anger on me because they were failing in life and hated that I succeed so much. They hate that I'm more attractive and could find a new partner more easily. They hate that I can just about not work at all and still make good money. They hate that people like me. They spread rumors, bully, cheat, abuse, etc. Anything to feel better somehow. I once walked up to a register, and the cashier's face immediately went from smiling to the last lady to as ugly and hateful as possible. All I did was walk up and smile.

When I ask these people why, they say they don't think it really matters. People like me don't need to be protected. We are so far above everyone else that they don't think what they say or do matters. People like me don't have real issues and never had to fight for anything or work for anything. Forget the fact that we have been abused and possibly poor or homeless. As if we don't have health issues, get depressed, raped, killed, or commit suicide. As if we are not humans...

Have you seen this happen? What are your thoughts?