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First of all , my coworker is older (huge age difference). I think he likes me and I like him too but I am not sure because he is super friendly with everyone. These are some of the signs why I believe this: He had asked me a lot of questions and some of them seem to me weird like if I know cooking and I said no and he said that I should learn because my future husband would love it.. He has revealed to me many things about himself without having asked for them (like where he was working before , what he has studied, how many languages he speak, Once I said my hometown is... and he said that he has visited and he should come and I said it is 4 hours away from our city and he googled and said no, it is more hours and smiled to me, also another time he asked what I would eat today at the restaurant that I was going and he said that he should come , when I changed my hair , from straight to curly he noticed it and commented on it... he said me that I can call him by his name , He almost everytime says goodmorning in the morning and see you when I leave, Another coworker asked him if he has a girlfriend and firstly he said he has many for fun and then he said no and he said that in this city he has not found a girl in order to stay, once I turned my back to him in the office like ignoring him and immediately he talked to me and seemed to care, when I asked him if I bother him when I ask about his help he said hot at all, he said a name of a band and I asked me if I know them, once he was standing and he knew I was looking at him , he seemed nervous, he had asked him to do him some favors like see who is calling him on his phone at work (not his personal) all these he does when there are and other coworkers somewhere in the office but when we are alone we dont say much (but I feel awkward to talk to him too) I dont know what to do

We broke up 4 months ago due to his move to another continent (job-related). I wanted to try long distance, he did not as he believes it would be too emotionally draining for him.
Since the break up I did a lot of mourning and I am semi-ok now. We stayed friends but communication is weird (initially he told me often he loves me and misses me) and is now really sporadic and low-engaging. The last time we talked he wanted to have a sort of virtual date (watching a movie together), which I was kinda reluctant to do.

At this point, I am not completely over him. It is hard as we had a really wonderful relationship. I miss him like crazy but at the same time, I am still upset as he did not even want to give us a shot.

I was thinking about asking him if he is dating (already) or not. Expecting the answer "yes", which I think it might push me away from him even more. That would probably be beneficial in terms of getting over him completely.

What do you think? Should I ask him to get even more hurt and therefore really move away holding to him? Or I should just leave him alone? Should I even respond to his messages anymore?

First of all , my coworker is 37 years old and I am 22. I think he likes me and I like him too but I am not sure because he is super friendly with everyone. These are some of the signs why I believe this:
a) He had asked me a lot of questions and some of them seem to me weird like if I know cooking and I said no and he said that I should learn because my future husband would love it
b) He has revealed to me many things about himself without having asked for them (like where he was working before , what he has studied, how many languages he speaks and personally I feel like he says all that in order to impress me
c) Once I said my hometown is... and he said that he has visited and he should come and I said it is 4 hours away from our city and he googled and said no, it is more hours and smiled to me, also another time he asked what I would eat today at the restaurant that I was going and he said that he should come
d) when I changed my hair , from straight to curly he noticed it and commented on it
e) he said me after some time that I can call him by his name
f) He almost everytime says goodmorning in the morning and see you when I leave
g) Another coworker asked him if he has a girlfriend and firstly he said he has many for fun and then he said no and he said that in this city he has not found a girl in order to stay
i) once I turned my back to him in the office like ignoring him and immediately he talked to me and seemed to care
j) when I asked him if I bother him when I ask about his help he said hot at all
h) he said a name of a band and I asked me if I know them
i) once he was standing and he knew I was looking at him , he seemed nervous
all these he does when there are and other coworkers somewhere in the office
but when we are alone we dont say much, actually typical things

I dont know what to do but my instict tells me he likes me , should I ask him to keep in contact