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i need advice on how to fix a relationship that started out as friends with benefits. we just have casual sex, but I'm starting to like him. we don't have a "friendship" going on, basically is just sex. at first my plan was to keep it like that, and I didn't wanna get attached to him. but now I feel that I want him for my own. whether or not I'm confusing my feelings, I would really wanna know how to change the way he sees me. I don't want him to fall completely in love with me, but at least I would want him to have a more deep relationship with him, you know share our stuff. I would definitely accept the fact that it's really hard to do, and just keep it the ways it was, but if somebody knows if I can do something about it please tell me.

When I first met him yeah he was all into me and stuff but then when we decided to take it as a fwb, then he just kinda stopped calling me or being you know nicer. basically yeah what we been doing is just "eat and run" lol. but as I said before due to the actual situation I can't pop up a question like" hey would you like to be something else" so what I was wondering is like what can I do have I was wondering how can I have his attention again, and somewhat make him see me as something else other than his sex toy.