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first off me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 1 year.
he's a joking type of guy.. he likes to joke around a lot with everyone
so anyway yesterday we were on the phone and he said something that kinda offended me and i went full silent mode and got pissed a little.. and then i hanged up on him
he kept trying to call back but i ignored his calls
i think he called about 4 or 5 times until i picked up and told him that ill talk to him the next day
so today he texted "morning" and i didn't reply
he was at work but he still tried to call me and then he sent me messages saying "you always do this to me. I've had enough. i have my limits too. i need to talk to u tonight. ill come over"
and then tonight he drove to my place and we talked for about 10 mins
this is what he said to me:
"look.. im just gonna keep this short. this is getting too much. i told u so many times that i hate being ignored. its so immature. i have my limits and this has reached it. i want a girl who treats me like respect back and that would fight for our relationship. i feel like you dont have the same feelings as i do for you. i feel like you're going to not care if we do break up. you never hold my hands, you never appreciate what i do. i take u to places wherever you wanna go, i take u out, i drive to you and u never appreciate all that. im just confused about you now. i need time to think about us, our relationship. i need 1 week to think if we both benefit each other. i dont care about the good sex that we have. i care about the relationship and if you're wife material. im thinking of the future not fucking around. so please give me 1 week to think and for yourself to think as well. i will see you next week. dont break up with me over the phone"
and then we parted ways.
Thing is, he tells me he loves me everyday and he doesn't want me to leave him.
Yet he might want to leave me
If someone truly loves their partner, would they still need a week break? Does it sound like it may lead to a breakup?

obviously not a stranger in this case. say you have known each other 3 or so years. he asked me out a few years ago, but at the time i thought guys just date for sex, and if he wanted to get to know me he'd be ok being friends, plus i was not ready for sex. so i just wanted to be friends. anyhow I've known how i felt quite a while, i have not said anything bc i didn't really know what to do. my first instinct was to walk away bc how can i go from insisting friendship to being like, oh by the way im in love so lets daye'. but I don't know i kid of want to see how he even thinks about it.

this is a first for me, itd be a same to not even get a chance to see... i suppose i dont really think i can tell him and have him be ok with it. but if i say nothing i know ill just fade away. so im leaning towards saying something. just wondering what people think. im ok with dating but i think i want to tell him first bc i dont want it hanging over my head, causing tension. if we date i want to go in calmly. and if he's not interested i want to move on knowing i was above board.

well, what do you all think?