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I have just graduated high school and have never been in a relationship before, or even really had feeling for someone until i met Riley. I am fairly shy around boys and i dont usually know what to say but with Riley it comes naturally. There is always something to talk about and he gives me butterflies every time i think about him. I found out he had a crush on me about a month ago, and i only looked at him as a friend. When my friends told me about his crush i looked at him a completley different way and started to develop feelings. I personally am the kind of girl who has never gone past kissing. I believe sex is for marriage and you should really get to know them before you date them. Me and Riley have only hung out in group settings (parties, grad, group hangouts). There was one party we went to together where we talked all night, went for a long walk and even slept together in the back of his truck. (seriously we slept, and did not have sex). He told my friends he wanted to kiss me but he didn't because he respected me (which i love). We have been texting a lot lately and saw each other again at a party the following weekend. We talked and hung out for most of it and i put cake on his face as a joke. He turned around and kissed me and got cake all over my face. (It was a long peck, nothing special but so adorable). Then i didn't really see him after that for a while, but when it was time for me to leave he walked me to my car and we made out for like 6 seconds. Again nothing special, but i thought everything about it made me melt. We have been talking a lot and have plans to see each other and i really think this could go somewhere. Okay so here's what the thing is!! He is moving in 6 weeks to another province because of work. I mean i knew this when i got into it but i couldnt help it and now im kinda stuck. I dont know wheather or not i should continue seeing him because i dont want to fall too hard and get my heart broken

My bf recently cut off his female friend. He said it was bc he had a huge crush on her before we met (I knew about this) & was redeveloping serious feelings for her.

When he confessed his love to her before meeting me, she rejected him (I was never worried about her, it was clear she had zero feelings for him & she moved several states away months ago.

after she rejected him he started to move on from her, but she didn't believe him. He said when he met me he thought I was pretty & sweet, but he only pursued me so she'd stop thinking he still liked her. He didn't anticipate we'd become serious.

8 mos into our relationship he started falling for her again so cut her off. After cutting her off he told me that before we met he was very much in love w/ her. He talked about how he would've done anything for her, she made his life so happy & simple, etc. He brought her to meet his parents (thats a huge deal, I'm the only other girl who's met his parents). He showed me a pic he had of her hidden i bc it had sentimental value & he offered to shred it in front of me.

He told me once he ended their friendship it helped him fall in love w/ me even more. He said she has some qualities I'm lacking, & he told her- "its wrong to have such strong feelings for someone else while I have a gf." He told me she was a threat to our relationship, & she had "a weird effect" on him.

I'm so glad he was honest & took the initiative to cut her off bc he realized it was a problem...but I don't know. If he loves me like he says then how could he develop such strong feelings for another girl? Should I dump him?

It hurt so much to hear him speak so affectionately about her, to hear that she has what I don't, that he fell more in love w/ me once she was out of the picture, & that he asked me out just to prove that he's over her. What do u think? Any advice/opinions will help.