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I have a boyfriend for a month now but I am not sure if he loves me. We met really intense and that we had sex but he committed to me as his girlfriend. Throughout our relationship these are the positive and negatives things I have observed

Positive
- He hugs me after sex very close to his chest
- We shower together and our kiss has really meaning
- He is not afraid to show his vulnerability and lose of money
- He shared his dreams to me and plans in life , but mostly it’s him
- Whenever we go out , he always drop me at home safe. He always make sure I go home safe
- He talks to me everyday
- He loves cuddling and kissing me

Negative
- Because we are very far , he is pressuring me to go in his house and I I can’t he gets really mad and threatening me that he will look for other girls
- I saw him chatting many girls and even talking with his ex girlfriends and liking their picture
- I read a chat that he wants his ex girlfriends back
- He is pressuring me to co-sign a loan for him but promise to pay monthly
- He sometimes don’t listen to my stories and it seems like I have to listen to his always
- I paid every date that we had because he is broke
- He just introduces me to his friend as “Girl”
- He never ask how was my day and it’s always his that I needed to help him always with his problems

so, this is weird. My best guy friend is best friends with one of my exes, so our friendship started when I was dating that guy, and has continued until now (me and said ex have been broken up over a year and a half). My friend and I have bonded super well, he went through a painful breakup over the summer and we both relate to each other’s pain. Over the last few months, I’ve been speculating whether or not he’s had feelings for me and vice versa but I’m unsure. A few months ago, I made a joke about wanting a boyfriend who played the guitar, and he’d replied “oh, so not me then,” and we went on with our day.
Then recently he’d stayed at my place, and before going to bed he gave me a hug and wished me “sweet dreams”. I thought this was odd because usually guys only say that to girls when they like them (in my experience)
and he drove across the state for less than one day just to show up to my birthday dinner 2 weekends ago.
ever since then, he’s been a little distant. When I ask him what’s bothering him he says mostly school, and leaves if ar that. Hardly replies to my texts. I’m confused. Is he pulling away because he likes me?

he's very naturally a sweet person to everyone I just noticed these couple things were over the top