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I lifeguard over the summer, and I've met some real chill people from ages 15 to 22. This one guy that I became attracted to is 19 and I am 16. Any way I know he is attracted to me because he always making comments about my butt and always trying to talk to me and he always forgetting and asking me what is my age or forgetting what grade I am. Any the whole summer we've been flirting but he made it clear that he don't like dating younger girls and by the way in my state the age of consent is 16 i'm turning 17 in 3 months. by the way we've hanged out a couple of times but never alone... we smoked at his house with one of my friends and afterwards he invited us inside but my friend kept bothering me because she has to go... like wtf. Also at my job he compliments me on the way i dress and one time I wore this crop top with a lace back with no bra and i can feel his eyes zoomed on my nipples but i didn't wear that crop top for him, I just like to go no bra and i'm not a slut or anything. I only had 2 boyfriends in my whole life time and I feel like I am way to mature for high school boys. Like everyone at my job was shocked when they realized i was 16 they all thought i was like 18. by the way i feel sex should be after marriage. But do you think I have a chance next year. I really like him, he is like the most honest/chill guys i ever met. Also we still talk but not like friends or close friends. we just text every now and then because he once to be a weed dealer (PLEASE DONT JUDGE THAT) but he is really a nice guy and he wants me to spread his number around! (PLEASE LOOK PASS ALL THAT BS) But he is not a bad dude because there has been times where he has had my back at work where he could of gotten in big trouble but do you really think I have a shot?

I've been friends with a guy for 3 years. He's quiet with people he doesn't really know, but he's not like that with me and his close friends.

Freshman year, we got really close, and people assumed we were dating, but he'd always deflect/deny it. We were friends the next 2 years but not as close, but this year, we're close again. There's a fairer share of who texts first than before, and in class, he has chosen to stay sitting next to me when his friend moved somewhere else. He talks to me first more and uses my name in conversation. He has a snapchat and only has a few (all male) friends on it, and a few days I told him to add me. He did, then I made a joke and he pretended to be hurt and unfriended me. A few hours later he randomly added me back of his own will.

Yesterday, everyone was talking in class, and both of us ended up staring at each other for a few seconds. I laughed and he asked what was funny, and I said he looked at me so then I looked at him and neither of us said anything and I thought that was funny. He just kind of laughed/brushed it off. There have been several times when we walk through the hall together (although I initiate this) and other times where I feel like he may just want to make conversation with me; he'll ask obvious/unnecessary questions like why I'm carrying an umbrella (I'll call him out on it and he'll get jokingly mad/flustered). However, there are bad signs, like he doesn't always reply to my snaps, ~half of our convos are about school, and I can't pick out any definite flirting signs.

How can I tell if an overall quieter guy likes me or just wants to be friends with me? Should I test the waters to see how he feels?

okay... so there's this guy. Over the summer I worked with his mom at a summer care place and I would see him from time to time when he came to see his mom. We both just graduated high school. It was a small class, I think there were 76 students in my class, so everyone knows everyone, and we've all gone to school together for 10+ years. Me and this guy were never best friends or anything but we were friendly. He's super hilarious and athletic and so so cute.

Anywho... a few day before we graduated I had gotten to class early one morning so I was sitting in my classroom and i fell asleep and he came in and screamed in my ear, scaring me awake and of course he recorded it and put it on snapchat. So i added him on snapchat because i wanted to see the video. He would occasionally snapchat me funny things and I would respond and it never lasted very long. But I got my braces off a few weeks before I moved away to college and i put a picture up on snapchat. Not too long after i put the picture on "My Story" he tweeted me saying that i looked "hawt" without braces. After i got my braces off i had to go back to work and he was there. So we talked and we took a selfie and he put that on Twitter with the caption "duudddeeeeeeeeeee." He put that same picture up on his snapchat story saying "such a pretty smile."

Now we both go to colleges in different states, but we still occasionally snapchat. He likes all my pictures on instagram and just yesterday I put up a picture of myself that I had taken at my college as part as an advertisement thing the school was doing. he commented "*picks jaw up off ground*" I commented back "haha you're crazy, but thank you" and he commented back saying he wasn't crazy. Sadly we dont have each others numbers so we dont text. But I feel like he likes me but at the same time I feel like he might be flirting just for the fun of it. Thoughts? Any advice? Thanks!

So, I've been talking to this guy for a couple months now. He asked another girl for my number, and we've been texting and talking in person since. We have a couple classes together, and we both row for our school's crew team. Everyone thinks we have a "thing" -- the entire crew team, everyone in marching band, and people in my classes.

Here's where things get complicated:
As far as I know, he has a long distance sort of relationship with some girl in Michigan, but I overheard him talking about maybe breaking up with her.
A girl from the crew team has it in her head that I actually hate this guy, and they were talking and somehow I came up and he told her that he needs to take some time to figure out if he likes me, but she told him to back off, stop flirting, and leave me alone because I'm not interested (even though I am very interested!!!). This was about a week ago. We still talk and text like always, but I'm worried I've missed the window of opportunity. Should I tell him I like him? How should I do it?