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So to start with, I've been dating this girl for only around two months now. She is quite a flirt, and openly admits it. She tells me honestly about how she flirts with other guys, but as far as I can tell she doesn't do anything more than flirt or have any desire to do anything more than flirt. She genuinely just seems to enjoy teasing people. She knows how jealous I can be and tends to avoid giving me any details about it as a result, not that I particularly want to know how she flirts with other men. I've been cheated on a lot in the past and am having troubles trusting her, but whenever we talk, I can't help but feel like she wouldn't cheat on me. Yet I continue to worry whenever I find myself alone. I found out that she even flirts with her exs, so I asked her to stop that since it seems dangerous to our relationship, but she got sad about it so I ended up telling her it's fine if she does. So my question is, what do you think about her flirting with other people? Do you think she's cheating or planning on cheating? Do you think it's just harmless flirting? I'd like different perspectives on this.

My older sister is 18 years old and a very, very sensitive person due to past childhood traumas. She’s dating a guy who’s in her graduating class and he seems like a really nice guy (#1 in the class, valedictorian, going to the same college as my sister and sensitive like her). But, the other day, she went and took my mom’s car to see him for 4 hours after my mom told her to see him for 30 minutes. So today, my aunt came over then my little sister told her everything my older sister been doing (like she was jealous). My aunt texted my older sister about everything my little sister spilled and my older sister seemed okay.

Then my little sister loves to cause trouble then start texting her as our aunt by going in on her for doing all of this with her boyfriend. My older sister completely couldn’t handle the pressure being put on her, so she completely shutdown. Like she put her earbuds in playing sad music, catching an attitude with everyone who tries to talk to her, locking herself in the bathroom, and weaving anyone trying to hug her. I got pissed off because my older sister is like my best friend and she’s going back into this shutdown mode. It usually lasts about a week before she comes back to her senses.

I told my little sister she should go ahead and tell her the truth, but my mom told me no don’t do it. I’m like it’s better to tell her the truth instead of letting her be pissed off at everyone. She should be mad at her little sister for being a jealous, vindictive asshole. But they kept saying no don’t it, just let her be the way she is.

Should I let it go or tell her the truth?