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The friend zone is bullshit. It's not a real thing. Why can't people just accept that their feelings aren't always going to be requited and that if they're not, it's not the other person's fault for putting them in the "friend zone" and just failing to see how great and dateable/fuckable they are.

Liking someone does not guarantee you sex/a relationship. if the person you like doesn't like you back, that does not make them a bitch or an asshole for just wanting to be friends. The friend zone is an excuse to ignore the fact that there might be actual reasons why they don't want to date you. Maybe they don't find you attractive, maybe they like someone else, maybe they actually LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND but don't want to fuck you/date you. That does not mean they are putting you in a little "undatable" box just to punish you. They are being FAIR by not dating you if they don't want to date you. People who whine about "ugh i'm in the friendzone, this is so unfair" are basically saying "ugh i don't care if he/she doesn't want to date me! I want to date them so because they won't do what I want, now they're being mean! wah wah wah." Unrequited feelings suck, but blaming the other person for not wanting you back is absurd.

What? you think that if you're nice enough, for long enough, then you're entitled to sex or a relationship? News flash, you're not. The friend zone is a fake thing. what it really comes down to is choice.

Friendzoning is bullshit because girls are not machines that you put Kindness Coins into until sex falls out.

Slut is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say yes.

Friendzone is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say no.

What are your thoughts on this? Do you really believe that if you like someone and they don't like you back that that it's somehow unfair to you and that the other person should just reconsider and "let you out of the friend zone?" Seems pretty entitled to me.