Search Results: get the courage

Need help please! Should I bother with this guy anymore?

I'm interested in a guy (24) who is veeery shy and has never had a girlfriend before. He is definitely not the sort of guy who would be confident enough to ask girls out. We have been messaging for about a year now and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I don't know what to do?

You know, I tired of living this life. Of course, I don't want to end it because I'm not the suicidal type, but there are times when I hate myself. I'm in junior high, going to pass to ninth grade, and I haven't had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it possible to have a strong liking to someone (like a crush,)?

I've been liking the same guy for years now since I was in middle school I was like 16? And I developed a strong liking to him. I never had the courage to tell him um in the I got older, he was ok with it but never ask me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What did I do wrong?

I currently live in a new neighborhood and I've been crushing on this girl for a year from afar watching her do her thing. I finally got the courage to ask her out by buying flowers (50 buckaroos down the drain) and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Are these signs my boss is controlling? What are the signs?

My boss is constantly texting me on my personal phone. Texting where are you, what are you doing, are you coming to work, can you come to my office? I told her how uncomfortable it made me and I would prefer if she would...

Lalafaksl

Xper 3 Age: 32

Okay, why do so many guys think girls don't have to do anything to get dates?

So many guys act like girls don't have to do anything to get dates, which is maddeningly false. They'll say things like "Oh, she can just wait and have guys come to her," but chances are, in order to even look hot enough...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Need advice? What happened?

So I started a new job 2 months ago. And I found myself attracted to a coworker of mine. The thing is he seemed like he was attracted too. We are both very shy and conversations wouldn't really get far. I found him in my...

Simplismilez

Xper 6 Age: 31

What should I do?

Alright. So I started a new job 2 months ago. And I found myself attracted to a coworker of mine. The thing is he seemed like he was attracted too. We are both very shy and conversations wouldn't really get far. I found...

Simplismilez

Xper 6 Age: 31

Why is he avoiding me all of a sudden?

There’s this guy that works at a cafe who seems really nice and cute. Lately when I come to get my regular coffee he gets really happy to see me, big smiles, eyes wide, gets all shy and sometimes looks away shyly....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Who should I go with to formal?

My school is having its formal in two month's time. It is the formal for the year level above me, so I won't be able to go unless someone in that year level invites me. I have a class with a boy (1) in the year level...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would he go from all interested to avoiding?

There’s this guy that works at a cafe who is really cute. Lately when I come to get my regular coffee he gets really happy to see me, big smiles, eyes wide, gets all shy and sometimes looks away shyly. Heard his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asked to formal by the wrong person?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, How can I get a girlfriend?

I am really fed up trying multiple means. There are women staring at me but I never have the courage to go and reach out to them. I have fear and feeling of anxiety. I want a girl friend may be in 30s or 40s with whom I...

Nickcompanion

Xper 3 Age: 39

Friendship at risk?

I started to work at a new place and i met new people and there’s one girl that i bonded with and she started telling me that she found one of our coworkers cute and all.. i could sense that she was starting to have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever befriended someone that you knew has a crush on you, just because you like the attention?

Be honest. I've done this. I knew he has a crush on me and even tho I didn't feel the same, I liked that he liked me in that way. I liked his attention. It fed my ego. And every time I would get treated bad by the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

I’m leaving , what do I do?

So I’m leaving for a road trip in a couple of days and as it is known I’ve been getting these signs from my crush that he possibly might like me. The thing is I’ll be gone for 3 weeks and I at least wanted to see if I...

loucasoul

Xper 5 Age: 30

Religion & Spirituality

Do you believe in preminetory dreams or sign from above?

Yesterday I was rejected by a job that could be awesome. He was very well paid, the atmosphere was cool and friendly, bounding with colleagues,... EVERYTHING I wanted. I was (still a bit) in the worst place. Suicide...

FrenchGirl2

Xper 7 Age: 30