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So if a 'good' guy asked you out, and you think he is a decent enough person with good morals and looks decent too (not 'handsome' but above average), but you aren't physically attracted to him (I mean... not repulsed by him, but you don't feel that magical pull towards his looks), would you still give him a chance to see if things work? Or would you reject him outright, to avoid leading him on?

Let's say that he isn't necessarily bad-looking, but he doesn't fit into your preference for height, race, facial features or something else. Also, he isn't asking for commitment right off the bat, he just wants to date you.

P. S. Please be brutally honest, go anonymous if you need to. Constructive criticism welcome.

When I was little I was always directing my friends because they never had any clue what they wanted to do. I did that until I was about 13 till I was scolded for doing so. Now I try and get their ideas on what they want to do regularly. Instead of just leading them, yet whenever I ask they say that they don't know what they want to do.
Should I stop asking them and just lead?
Girls what is your opinion in this?
Do you like a guy that leads and regularly asks what people want to do.
Or do you like a guy that leads until someone speaks up and suggests something else to do?