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We went to high school together, and just talked in class. But then we started hanging out a lot because we both go to the same college now. The first month she basically initiated everything. She dropped some hints she liked me, and a couple were pretty obvious. I was timid and didn't really show interest back, and I wasn't sure if it was just her personality. Well I started to get attached and fall for her, and she kind of stopped dropping hints, but we still hung out as friends 15-20 hours a week for the second month. Last I saw her was about 4 weeks ago, she wanted to get coffee and then she invited me to go watch netlfix in her room. I ended up spending the night there and slept on the couch. I left the next day and decided I was going to open up to her when we got dinner later. She brought her roomate so I didn't, figured I could tell her in a few days when I saw her again. Except I haven't seen her since that night, and I asked her to go to the gym and get dinner a few times in the past 4 weeks but she has been busy everytime. And she parties a lot on the weekend now. I am kicking myself for not telling this girl how I feel, and I totally missed my chances. I can't even think of a time I showed obvious interest in her. I try and forget about her but she is the first thing I think about in the morning. What should I do in this situation, where I wish I told a girl I like her? by the way I am 18 not 28!!!

Girl I knew in high school but I never really hung out with her. We started going to the same university and our dorms are right next to each other. The first I day I moved in, we met up for dinner. That whole week she was very forward in hanging out, inititating about everything. This was a little over 2 months ago when we first moved in. Those first few weeks she was dropping a few hints, but I thought it was just her personality. She's really outgoing, in a soriority, etc. Well, I noticed she stopped dropping hints, but we still hung out 3-5 times a week. Last time I hung out with her I was watching netflix in her room all night, initiated by her. That was 2 weeks ago, and it's the first time I haven't seen her for 2 weeks. I was trying not to get attached to her because she didn't seem like the kind of girl wanting to date in college, but now I feel like she was trying to drop hints and I didn't make a move. I messed up and missed my chances. So I want to meet up with her again for dinner or something, and figure this out cause its driving me crazy. I plan on asking her this.

"Did you ever think of us being more than friend when we started hanging out?"

Of course that's not all I'll say, but that'll be my first question and I want to see how she reacts.

We used to hang out all the time for 2 months straight, just as good friends. We both go to the same college, and we only talked in class during high school. She was dropping hints almost two months ago but I didn't do anything about it, and she just kinda stopped. I was getting ready to tell her how I feel, and ask her out on a date, but I haven't seen her all last week or this week, which is not common. I'm not sure why, and I'm not sure if I should move on or not. I've been hanging out with other friends to take my mind off her, but I still always think about her. by the way I'm 18 not 28!!!

so i started talking to an old high school friend, we werent close but since i moved back for college in another area, i found out she lives near me. we hung out atwice and both ended with kisses and i didn't expect to fall for her so easily, maybe it was because she also appeared to fall for me as well, but i truly felt like we really liked each other, shortly afterwards she doesn't text me as often and as passionate as she did before, she finally replied ans said she was going through some stuff so i decided not to blow up her phone and give her a bit of space, she tells me that yet i see her hanging out with another dude on her snapchat, and another dude on instagram, i swear it was like 3 other dudes that she's been kicking it with. i began to think is she just going around to guys and doing what she did to me? purposely leading me on so i develop feeling for her and then she just stops.. how many of u girls do that, and why would she be doing that?

We went to high school together and just talked in class every so often. I always admired her, not to the point where I had any kind of crush though. Well we both started at the same college as freshmen 8 weeks ago, and our dorms are right next to each other. Since we moved in, we have been hanging out 3-5 times a week. The first 4 weeks I felt some tension, and it seemed like she was dropping a couple hints she liked me. Plus she initiated about everything. Well I didn't show any interest back and it seemed like she moved on (she's beautiful, popular, and lots of boys chase her so she's not the type to get hung up on one dude). We still hang out and go to the gym though, but I can tell she sees me as just a friend. Bottem line is, I really like this girl, and I want her to know but I don't know if it's a good idea. Last night she text me about meeting up for coffee, because all her friends were partying and she wasn't in the mood to that night. After we got coffee, we went back to her dorm, got pizza, and watched netflix until 5 am. At 5 am I fell asleep on her couch, and she slept on her bed. I woke up around 1 pm today and went back to do some chores. When we were watching the show, I sat in the middle of the couch and she sat off to the side doing homeowrk. There was never any tension or anything, and eventually she just moved to her bed and I layed on the couch. So basically, friendzone. We are supposed to be getting dinner in a little while, should I just tell her straight up how I feel? I can handle rejection, I just don't want to make things weird.