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I've always felt sort of "fortunate" that I am a female homosexual, rather than a male one, ever since I became cognizant of my attraction--during the onset of puberty. Both has negative stereotypes placed on them, like flower-boyish or tomboyish, mainly due to the media. However, men, in general, are expected to always be unfeeling, to bottle up their emotions, and definitely not to compliment the same-sex.

There are noticeably fewer restrictions on girls, and they have the privilege of hugging other girls, calling each other "pretty" or "on fleek (perfect)," and etc. I would often find myself becoming enchanted by another girl yet don't have to worry about being called "gay" for staring at her. Even if a guy looks at another guy for five seconds, there would already be a problem.

Plus, I am a naturally jubilant kind of person. I can't help but giggle or blush when other girls are around; most of them just think that I'm "childish" and nothing more. I also don't "act" like how some people may think lesbians behave, as in I'm not "masculine." Once again, everyone remains oblivious simply because they think it's "cute" for girls to be shy around boys. I even inform my peers that I don't plan on wedding nor dating, and they think it's because I'm just too innocent.

I can't imagine the taunting a guy would receive if he said "I'm scared of girls" or "No, I don't want a girlfriend." From my demeanor, most people just assume that I'm a timid girl who acts weird around other girls because she doesn't know how to talk with people. Partially true.

Arthur is 30 years old and has a three year old son named Nelson. His girlfriend ( and mother of Nelson) Rachel is 20. Arthur is a s*x offender due to being with Rachel while she was under 18. now Arthur is jobless, broke and terrified of going outside. The family is living off government aid. Rachel goes to work everyday while Arthur stays home and cares for Nelson. Arthur cooks, cleans, cuddles and plays games with Nelson. Nelson loves his parents very much. Arthur is a shy, friendly man but he's also very depressed at times. One of the neighbors find out Arthur is a s*x offender. The man beat, kicked Arthur and told him to die. At that point Arthur couldn't take it anymore. He hugged Nelson tightly and said I'm such a horrible father, I'm so sorry Nelson while sobbing uncontrollably. One night after reading Nelson a book, Arthur locked himself in the bathroom, turns on the bath water, and took 20 pills.

John is 35 years old. He's married to a woman named Alice and they have three children. Two boys and one 9 year old girl named Tuesday. John works as a construction worker. Alice often calls Tuesday stupid, worthless, pathetic and ugly. Alice slapped and kicked Tuesday in front of John. John ignores it. Alice calls Tuesday ugly in front of John. John does nothing. John sees cuts and bruises on Tuesday, but says nothing. Alice forces Tuesday to walk around with a bag over her head because she's ugly. John ignores this. Alice gives food to the boys and gives Tuesday the leftovers on their plates. John does nothing. John laughs and calls Tuesday a cockroach. When CPS finally came, John lied, covered up the abuse to protect his wife. - book call me Tuesday.

Which father is worse?