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We broke up in January after 4 months of dating. I wanted things to be slightly more serious and he was happy with being exclusive but casual. He showed up at my place in February (a few days before Valentines). He was really drunk and was saying how much I meant to him and how he'd made a huge mistake and wanted to be in a proper relationship with me. We slept together that night and then I didn't hear from him for another month. Since then he's been texting me once or twice a month - mostly just to check how I am or to say he's sorry. It was my birthday on the weekend and, after a bit to drink, I text him saying I'd seen him around the other day (and hadn't said hi) and that he looked really good. In hindsight it was a stupid idea. We text back and forth for a day or so and then he suggested we catch up. I asked him out right if he just wanted to get laid. In hindsight, bad idea. He obviously said no and suggested we meet for a drink. We did. We chatted for a while and it was really comfortable. He was being really sweet and telling me he'd missed me and he'd forgotten how cute I was etc. We ended up going back to mine and making out. One thing led to another. I expected him to just leave afterwards like he had the last time, but instead this time he stayed and we chatted and cuddled. He even fixed my window! He did say though that he was really busy with work and didn't have time for anything other than work. Which was one of the reasons he used for us not having a more serious relationship the first time. I don't really know what to do now.

I mean it's been months and I've been on dates with other guys, but as soon as I saw him all the feelings came back. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I mean was it just a mistake and I forget about it? Do I say something to him? Do I wait for him to say something?

recently ran into an old guy friend who used to have a huge crush on me and we went out a couple times and had a lot of fun, he even suggested taking a couple days off for my birthday (which is a couple weeks from now) and us going out. It was 100% his idea and why would he do that if there was no interest

He told me I was pretty and that how we ended things left him with more questions than answers and it was unexpected and abrupt and he likes to not think about it. Things ended ugly between us back then and it ended with us not speaking. In person he's totally fun, especially the last time.
Over text though, he mostly replies with short answers and when I asked if he wanted to go with me to look at handguns since he has a lot and I'm a girl that lives alone and I don't know much about them, he said, "I might not be able to this week but maybe other weeks I may be able to help ya out" which seems weird, especially after how enthusiastic he seemed about us going out for my birthday. It was 100% his idea and he said that he wanted to like 3 times.
Some people said he might be avoiding me so he doesn't get hurt again and others said he's not interested.

I will add that I told him that I had a crush on him back then so I didn't know if I made him uncomfortable. He seemed surprised and said, "Did you really? Well now I feel like an *** " and then said, "When... I don't know.. Never mind" like he had something else to say.
Since he was acting weird when we texted, I texted him saying, "I'm gonna give you some space haha" I said haha to lighten it a little and he said "Haha wutevs" and seemed mad. He's never said "wutevs" to me before or spelled it like that. I told him I was leaving the ball in his court because I don't like being pushy and he said, "No you're good" When I asked him if he was interested in anyone, he said something to the effect of (can't remember exact words) that he was trying not to like anyone because he

I recently ran into an old guy friend who used to have a huge crush on me and we went out a couple times and had a lot of fun, he even suggested taking a couple days off for my birthday (which is a couple weeks from now) and us going out.
He told me I was pretty and that how we ended things left him with more questions than answers and it was unexpected and abrupt and he likes to not think about it. Anyway, in person he's totally fun, especially the last time.
Over text though, he mostly replies with short answers and when I asked if he wanted to go with me to look at handguns since he has a lot and I'm a girl that lives alone and I don't know much about them, he said, "I might not be able to this week but maybe other weeks I may be able to help ya out" which seems weird, especially after how enthusiastic he seemed about us going out for my birthday. It was 100% his idea and he said that he wanted to like 3 times.
Some people said he might be avoiding me so he doesn't get hurt again and others said he's not interested.

I will add that I told him that I had a crush on him back then so I didn't know if I made him uncomfortable. He seemed surprised and said, "Did you really? Well now I feel like an *** " and then said, "When... I don't know.. Never mind" like he had something else to say.
Since he was acting weird when we texted, I texted him saying, "I'm gonna give you some space haha" I said haha to lighten it a little and he said "Haha wutevs" and seemed mad. He's never said "wutevs" to me before or spelled it like that. I told him I was leaving the ball in his court because I don't like being pushy and he said, "No you're good"