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My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. We are not living together at this point. I know he would like to but I'm not ready for that just yet. He actually moved in with me about 3 months into the relationship. We ended up breaking up after 5 months of living together and him moving back to his other place due to a big issue we had and one which broke my complete trust. We were broken up for approx. 4 weeks and have been back together now say 6 weeks.

His mother his coming from overseas to live in June (another 5 -6 months) and she will be living in the house he rents. Upon getting back together with each other I did explain to him that due to the severity of the initial relationship issue which caused my trust to plummet to zero that I wanted to take things more slowly this time which includes dating each other for a year before I would consider another living arrangement. That would mean we would revisit this at the end of this year.

Today he suggests we give the living together thing another go in six months time when his mother arrives and can take over the rental. I told him I wasn't ready for that to happen so soon and I still wanted to give it the rest of the year to see how our relationship goes. He then said to me that if I don't want to live together by the time she arrives that he is going to look for a new place to live on his own and that he isn't prepared to live with his mum and then if he does take out a new lease it means it will be quite a while before we can ever get to that point of living together.

It sounds to me that he is rushing me along to suit his predicament with his living arrangements with his mum and I really feel that he is pushing for this because of his situation and convenience for him.

I suggested he would only have to share with her for 6 mths until we got to the end of the year and surely she can't be that bad too be around but he isn't happy about it.

Opinions?

The other day my boyfriend of 10 months and I were talking and he happened to bring up the question "If my daughter wanted to live with us one day, what are your thoughts on that"?

So currently we don't live together. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship, one who is 5 and the other who is 6. I have my daughter with me from a previous relationship and she is 6. Our current arrangement is that he has his kids every second weekend and on those particular weekends that he has them we alternate time spent at each others homes just to be fair, so one time he and the kids will come over to my place for the weekend and the next time he has them, my daughter and I go over to his house for the weekend. His kids are a little more full on than my daughter and so it can seem like a bloody circus at times, just different upbringings and slightly different parenting styles unfortunately.

Our history to date is that we did end up rushing things and he actually moved in to my place about 4 months into our relationship but he had been staying the majority of the time at mine about a month prior to that. The kids started spending weekends at my house pretty much a month into our relationship. Right from the get go the kids have always stayed at mine. Then at the 8 month mark I found out my boyfriend had a serious issue which he had been hiding from me and which had impacted our relationship somewhat so I asked him to leave and we broke up.

Considering all this plus my update to this poll, if she were one day to move in with us, would I be financially accountable for her. Like is it reasonable to expect that I financially support her with my boyfriend eg. school fees, excursions, hobbies and any other day to day living expenses. I'm just wondering if that is a reasonable expectation from my boyfriend considering she has a mother and father who should be providing for her, why would I be expected to do that? It doesn't seem right.