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The title says it all. Rather simple question, really. What I mean by it is not like in an actual relationship, but just as a general thing when meeting new people and making new friends.

To me, personally, it never mattered, for as long as I can remember, when I was like 3 in pre-school.

Somewhere in early elementary school there was some sort of separation in between boys and girls, about the "cooties" and stuff, but I never took part in it, or even thought about it. I was like, "What the fuck? This is just stupid. We are all human, that's all that matters." Excluding the word "fuck" as I was in elementary school, but you get what I mean, lol.

Throughout my life in general, I've also noticed that straight people often have trouble talking to the opposite sex/gender... which I personally never related to, unless it was a very specific girl I had a crush on. But developing a crush on someone in the first place was almost impossible to me, so most of the time I remained almost oblivious to sex/gender unless it was a certain situation that put emphasis on that.

So therefore, overall, I think of both males and females the same way, I treat them both the same way, and have about an equal amount of female and male friends.

I'm really quiet and mild tempered all the time, so though I treat males and females the same, it bothers no one. Some guys are overly rowdy to both sexes/genders, which may bother some girls... but I'm no rowdy guy.