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So I had this shallow crush for this guy a couple months back just to get over my other crush. I rarely talked to this one just admired him. Then I got over my other crush after a couple of days. I told this guy after a month and a half that I had a crush on him. He told me he wasn't concentrating on love until grde twelve because of his lacrosse scholarship he wants and he wants better grades in school. His close friend (who is a close friend of mine from 11 years or so now) told me he isn't into dating really. I got over him a bit after singing an insulting song about him for a week. Then subconsciously I kept looking in cars while I was in the car wondeeing if he was in one. I got back to liking him and I think I was just trying to fool myself before. Whenever I sleep I dream of him. Whenever I see his name on Twitter or his picture I melt. Whenever I hear his name I jump a bit and get butterflies even when it is a different person with his name. I walk down the streets and look around to see if he miraculously will walk by my area. I wonder where he might live. Whenever I am ontop of life I think "haha I don't need him" but apparently I do if I can't stop thinking about him and when he is the first thing that pops into my mind. When I see a lacrosse stick I am sick to my stomache. Everything reminds me of him, even when I was eating poutine and I remember he told me that was his favorite food. What is going on wih me? Am I just an obsessive frightening stalker, or am I inlove? I am not known for being obsessive, and I don't think of anything innapropriate so its not as if I want him in that sense. I am known for being sweet and small and cute and kind so I don't think I could be a stalker. Any help please?

"Why do you never take a break from gaming, instead you blame the world for your lack of gf?"

Even if you do get one, she'll soon give up on you...
(usually happens)

Why do you not feel like it's you?
Why do you always assume it's the girl?

---I have a friend who's a completely obsessed gamer. He literally CAN'T live without his games, and is on them from the time he gets back from work until the time he goes back to sleep.
He blames the world for his lack of a romantic interest - and when he does get a gf, she soon gets fed up with his obsessive behavior and leaves forever.

How can I motivate him to stop this self-destructive behavior?
Why does he blame the world instead of himself?

- denial - but what makes him blind when he reflects on himself?

I am relatively young an never had a bf yet. I want one soo bad I can't wait. I want somebody to call me beautiful, hug me tightly, kiss me passionately and say I love you. I want somebody to wipe my tears. I want somebody to make love to me so passionately that I start crying at the beauty of it. I want to have a bf soo bad I hurts. not even to do all the lovey stuff but hanging out, playing sports and cuddling. All my friends are gorgeous and they have bfs and then there's me the ugly one. I read fanfictons all the time and I think: I wish that was me. I am afraid nobody will ever love and I won't experience what I am desperately wanting. I feel ugly and insecure. Somebody help me before I lose it. I never told anyone this :x Don't judge me please, I can't control it.