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Basically, my best friend's exe is controlling him in a way that doesn't allow him to look at other females in a sexual way or think about females like that. He has an abnormally high sex drive so this is equivalent to torture for him. He's constantly sexually frustrated and doesn't know what to do. He doesn't want to displease his exe but he's also unsure what to do.. He can't stand this any longer though. From how I understand it... It's not this girl's place to be telling him who he can and can't look at. She's his exe for a reason.. (And a good one at that if you ask me tbh..) so it'd be understandable if they were dating.. But they're not. So it's really immature and cruel of her to be doing this to him. She's more than aware of his condition.. And also, this is actually a form of torture. It does things mentally to a person and drives their emotions to be more extreme (build up of hormones etc. there's literally so much going on all at once chemically in the body etc. and mentally...) hence it being a torture.. And a pretty bad one at that.. Especially for this guy.. If you've ever been sexually frustrated or deprived you'd know how much of a torture it can be.. Now imagine that for months... So! What do you think? Would you say that what this girl is doing to him would be counted as abusive or not? Please argue your point. Thanks so much in advance!!

I was sexually abused by my step-grandfather when I was about 5 or 6 years old. I'm now 17, turning 18 very soon. My parents have always known about the abuse (I told them soon after it happened), I saw a councillor, and I didn't see my step grandfather for about 3 or 4 years. After that, we gradually started inviting him back into my life. While the issue has kind of been swept under the rug since, my parents have not forgotten what happened. Anyway, we had my grandparents over for lunch today (for Easter) and I was wearing a denim skirt with a shirt that came down to my elbows. After they left, my mum told me off for wearing the skirt (which she thinks was too short and tight) in front of him, saying it was inappropriate given what happened all those years ago. I would like to think she's just trying to protect me because she cares about me and loves me, but part of me also feels that I shouldn't be told off for wearing clothes that make me feel good about myself (it was also a warm day today, so a skirt was very weather appropriate). Given that I was the one who was abused, I don't see why I still get in trouble for wearing certain clothes around him. Also, my mum saw what I was wearing at least an hour before they arrived. If she wanted me to wear something else, couldn't she have just told me then? I would have changed and then she wouldn't have had to get mad at me after. What do you think? Feel free to post your opinion as well as vote X