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I was at at bar watching my friends band play with some friends and my friends with benefits is one of the band members. After they played they just had music and karaoke and people were dancing, I know how to dance but I'm really shy so I usually don't and I guess I'm kind of awkward too but anyway, my girl friends went to go dance and they waved me over to join them. I was drunk and dancing is fun so I thought 'fuck it' and went and danced with them. We all danced pretty stereotypically, moving our hips and waists and such. I seen my friends with benefits watching me and I just thought he probably liked watching me move like that. Fast foward to a couple day later, I'm at his house, we just had sex and we are talking and he goes "I was watching you dance the other night and " then he just starts busting up laughing! I instantly feel embarrassed and self conscious and tell him "Damn I didn't know I was that bad" and he laughed and said "It wasn't bad" so I reply with "If it wasn't bad you wouldn't be laughing" and he says "No it's just " laughs some more "Watching you try to dance sexy like you were thinking 'okay I'll do this, that's sexy'" I just said "so I'm bad at it then, well I know how to dance just not like that. I've taken Jazz and Tap" For some reason I felt the need to mention I've taken dance classes to feel a little better. He just kept saying it wasn't bad but because he knows me so well, it was funny to see me dance like that. So do you think he thought I was a bad dancer? Or did he genuinely just think that me dancing was funny because of my personality?

I met a guy on a dating site about 5 years ago. We hung out maybe 2 times after. The first year we knew each other we didn't have sex toghther. The second year we did after not hanging out all that time. He always makes plans with me but rarely follows threw. I got pissed at him for a while for something he said & i blocked him. He stayed blocked for about 6 months. The whole time I had a feeling that he still texted me out of curiousity I unblocked him. Not even a week later I got a hey text from him he texted me almost weekly just hey nothing else for about 2 months. ( wanted to see if he was going to say something else eventually.) finally I asked him why he still text me If I haven't responded in a long time. I forgot what he said, but we ended up hanging out again. Then back to the same thing were he'd text me & stand me up. I chaned my number. I had posted something one day online with out a picture & he wrote it but he typed my old user name with a? mark. Like asking If it was me with out putting my name on it. I dont know but I thought it was cute that he still remembered my user name even tho I don't remember his. we hung out again 1 time Back to the no shows again. I moved & told him I'm not coming back... 3 weeks after I come back I didn't tell him but he texted me and asked if I was back like he knew I was or something & ask to hang out. Last night I asked him why he only hangs out with me once a year his response was "idk. I've always liked you". I was going to write "well you should stop blowing me off so much and date me" instead I wrote "once a year" Basically do you think he actually likes me or he just wants to know I'm around if there's no one else... I like him but all this blowing me off stuff is getting old. Some times he doesn't text me for months tho. so Also wondering If It seems like he is mayb only cotantacting me after break ups?