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I was with my dad today, and he gave me some things to think about... and I want to know what you guys think.

I'm a recent college grad, and I just found a job. I will be making 35K a year, full benefits, free gym pass and profit sharing. I will be working this job Mon-Fri/9-5.

On top of that, I will still be working my weekend job, Sat/Sun from 9-3. And while I am doing that, I am also writing books in my spare time and getting money off of that.

While all this is going on, I have 20K worth of loans to payoff and I am still living with my parents. The thing is, when I get my own place... my dad thinks I should quit my weekend job, relax, get a social life and live life a little.

Based on what I said above, do you guys agree with him?

Since leaving high school, I've had a hard time making friends. When I do go out, I just go to the bookstore or gym alone. I've never had a girlfriend before... just had my heart broken many times. Because of my many social failures, I usually spend a ton of time alone and find comfort in working and doing projects. I feel like if I am not working or doing projects, I'm wasting time and become bored.

My 3 year girlfriend just broke up with me!

2 weeks ago was my anniversary and my ex organised a surprise party for me and she invited all my family!
Everything was going great, we moved in a new appartement we did the painting and shit... you know girl stuff hahaha (i'm realizing how lame it sounds)
Anyways... next day after my anniversary we did a bbq at her mothers place and we spent a wonderfull day!
Without having an argument or no conflict my ex stopped talking to me that night without an single explanation... so i leaved her alone because i tought she has problems at work and she's stressed so i thought i'll give her a day or two to breathe...
5 days later she still wouldn't speak to me so she kind of put me in a defensive position so i wouldn't talk to her until she apologizes or something!
Friday she comes home from work she sits on the couch and tells me: We have to talk! so i said you god damn right we have to talk, what's up with you beeing such a bitch?
She tells me:i want you to leave the house"appartement"!
I said: what? what the hell is wrong with you?
And she tells me that she has health problems and she thinks she can have babys and she doesn't want me to be unhappy with her and bullshit (i don't belive a word)
Imidiatly i became offensive i told her:listen, i don't know what the hell got you but i'm not leaving anywhere... i you have a problem just pack your shit and leave, i don't have any problem so why should i leave!
But first i wanted to know what's wrong how come you just stopped talking like that and then you decide you want me gone? WTF
And then she started all kind of talking that i don't have a job!
Just so you guys know i started my own business which begins to pay so i pay my share in the house!
The rent is paid she has everything she needs!
Anyways... what do you guys think?
Similar experiences?