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Though I'm generally against spanking, I wouldn't completely close on the option if a partner wants to do with the hands, is consistent (doesn't do it for everything) and not in anger.

However, he is so dead on spanking as the only thing that works on kids and refuses to hear about alternatives options as well too. Is this a good reason to break up? It's not really about his opinion but the fact that he wants only spanking as the first resort for everything that's bothering me. This is going to cause major argument if we ever have a child.

For some reason I really like Wreck it Ralph because growing up I always identified with the bad guy. My mom and sister would always treat me like I was the bad guy, I cooked, cleaned, and did the most work and they took all my "clothes" and stuff that was given to me by friends, and they always made fun of how "ugly" and "undesirable" I was. It was like "no one likes you, you should go kill yourself, you're lower than dog poop" all my life. They stole from me, demanded me be their slaves and never shared with me and always assumed I was selfish, evil and mean. They on the other hand was always the pure, good one who did no wrong (my mom mentally, physically and psychologically abused me but she was always justified in her eyes, my sister did the same to me along with stealing someone else's husband, breaking and stealing and having a child out of wedlock and being so awful her "friends" always kicked her out of their houses to live on the street with a newborn). Needless to say my mom and sister think they are super righteous and holy, and the mother teresa of their time. I'm supposedly the most evil and awful person ever born.

I spend most of my life being a good mom, wife and friend and reading tons of self help books to better my moral, character, social skills, nonviolent communication, and empathy factor. I try to read about 12 books a year and always attending classes on how to become a better person because obviously I'm the most evil person ever born.

For some reason I find that there is a sense of right and wrong, and my sister said "what are you? the family police?"

Things that I consider right or wrong:
1. beating up your mom and almost killing her (youngest brother, YB)
2. purposely stealing someone else's husband from his wife and kids (sister did this, S)
3. Judging someone as less than human if you have to allow them to stay in your house but if they stay in your house you better treat them like a KING (YB)
4. buying stuff to just return right away after you have used it for a week (YB)
5. thinking you are better or more important than someone, and therefore they need to worship you and give you all their money (YB)
6. demanding someone service, like they live with you and they want you to go buy them coffee, clean their clogged toilet and also give them 1000 a month (no they are not paying rent, and no they are not helping with chores or anything) (Middle brother, MB)
7. stealing 200,000 from your parents (YB, and MB)
8. demanding that someone do everything for you, just because you exist (YB, MB, S)
9. cheating on your spouse whom you have a child with (S)
10. having a child out of wedlock with some guy who is married and has kids, breaking into a whole bunch of motels and also doing all this just to piss your parents off...(S)

Any of these do you find immoral or right or wrong? Or do you think all of this is just ok as long as you feel good about it? ofcourse it is all right to my siblings AND my parents, because they ALLOW these things to happen! They encourage it, and tell me to STFU because if I say anything then it will taint our "family" therefore just be quiet and I'm the crazy, evil, psycho one... because I don't steal money, beat up my parents, and cheat on my spouse and steal a spouse from his wife and kids.

What do you find right or wrong? Or is there no such thing, as long as it feels good?