Search Results: dating a shy guy

What should I do if a guy is worried about the dating rules at our job?

Im interested in this guy but he seems hesitant to start anything.. mainly looking at me when we are by eachother. He looks down and away.. he's so cute. Im nervous/shy with him. I feel weird saying hi actually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy only looked at your dating profile yet hasn't wrote you does that mean he's not interested?

We work at the same place... Right now he just looks down and away when we pass eachother in the hallway. Im really shy with new people so im pretty quiet with guys... I also noticed our details matched up pretty well...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why nice guys hardly ever get a chance?

Why is it that nice guys hardly ever get a chance of dating a woman? Why is it that woman prefer taller men? What do they have that us shorter guys don't? I didn't choose to be short. I have so many questions I want to...

Westley117

Xper 3 Age: 29

Why does my boyfriend seem to avoid wanting to video chat, (read below)?

So I’m 20 and my boyfriend is 22. After getting to know each other for a year, he recently asked me to be his girlfriend cause of how he loves my personality and literally describes it as, “sweet, smart, caring, mature,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

She persistently messages me but I’m not sure she’s interested in dating?

She’s 24 I’m 34. Sorry for the long message. I’ve known her for about four years. We talk a lot. Facebook, WhatsApp Instagram, Snapchat etc. she’ll try and spam me to get my attention. Even if I ignore her messages there...

DarthC0okie

Xper 4 Age: 40

Is dating easier for shy guys in conservative areas?

I know it’s common for women to turn down guys for being 25 year old virgins, but not so much in the Southern US where most girls are born-again Christians. Things are better for guys in Georgia and Tennessee compared to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is dating easier for a guy in a conservative area, particularly if he’s a shy virgin?

Imagine at a New York bar a girl found out I’m a 25-year old virgin or that I don’t like to drink. Very different reaction from someone at a church in small-town Georgia. Upbringing plays a huge part in a woman’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some turn offs to avoid when flirting with opposite sex?

Hey! Just wanted to get some dating feedback on this subject from both genders. I'm a straight guy looking for a relationship, but I'm shy and has low self-esteem. However I want to be able to be confident when talking to...

aquarius21

Xper 5 Age: 29

Flirting

Do you think shy guys have their own rhythm for flirting?

I know some of you will say : yes, of course, they do not move at all. I am talking about shy guys that go out of their way to be social and initiate things. I think they have their own rhythm, a very slowly one, for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I pursue him?

I would really appreciate if someone would answer for me. I'm a single woman in my late 30s. Due to several abuses I went through, I struggle with my self-esteem the whole life and it deeply effects my dating life among...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I apologize to the guy I like for giving him the cold shoulder and clear up any misunderstandings between us?

If you've seen my previous questions you'll have more background knowledge but just to make things short there's this guy I've liked and when he first met I found him to be kinda rude at first but after awhile I got to...

RAiN1317

Xper 4 Age: 23

Why does he move so slow?

I have been dating a guy for almost four months when we get together we have a lot of fun and sometimes get lost talking for 5 hours. I enjoy my time for him but things always move so slow in the sexual department and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you know when a shy/insecure guy is interested in dating you?

When I date, I usually wait for the guy to come to me. I don’t like coming off as pushy or needy. But I am attracted to more introverted men, and I feel like this ends up being an issue. Usually the men just end up not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I miss my ex and I don't know what to do? I've tried to move on but can't stop thinking about him:( ?

My ex split up with me 3 months ago saying the connection had gone & he doesn't want to hold me back. To me if there's a connection between 2 people its always there. We dated for a year but we were best mates for 2 years...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My heart is racing so much over a guy, what do I do to calm down and keep my cool?

So I’m 20 and I’m kind of characterized as a little awkward and shy. I’ve only ever had one boyfriend, which he made on and off until the last time he broke up with me last year, I told him I can’t be around him anymore...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Coincidence or not?

There’s a man i worked with that I truly suspect has had a crush on me. Now, I have one too which is why I’m bothering writing. He’s Japanese, born and raised. It matters, they culturally aren’t so assertive when it comes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you ever have sex with a Virgin guy?

Am 26 and still a virgin , and i feel so bad about it. Am still virgin not because am ugly or creep or something like that , but simply because am so shy around girls and don't know how to talk to them so i never had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hard time moving On... please help, also why did he delete his dating profile?

For about 1.5 wks was talking to a guy on a dating app (he;s Indian) and we were getting along great, actually conversing & seemed to have similar sense of humors. He had messaged me a few times over the past few months...

kme121

Xper 4 Age: 33