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Search Results: deciding between 2 guys
How to deal with double standards?
I feel there are double standards between my boyfriend and I. I admit I am a jealous person BUT I hold it in a lot. There have only been three occasions I didn't. First time I got jealous was when he was tagged in a photo...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I contact the guy I like after I told him it was better to stop talking?
I told the guy I like that it was getting hard for me to keep talking to him, since he's now in college and living in another country (but lives in the same place as me), and that maybe it was better for us to stop...
Anonymous
(36-45) He is filming me quite a lot! What do you think of this?
Thanks to all that reply, I truly appreciate it! BACKGROUND: Me and this guy know each other for over 2 years now but only recently have been starting to spend more time together because there is a big distance...
Anonymous
(30-35) We like each other, but he has a girlfriend......
This guy and I have known each other for almost a year and recently we clearly have developed some mutual attractions. At first it was just how we look at each other and we could both feel that. Then he started asking me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I dump my long distance fling?
I met a guy whilst travelling overseas and we had instant chemistry. After I left his country we kept in contact and after a couple of months we decided to meet for a week halfway between where we live. We had an amazing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I tell him I like him?
So I liked this guy my sophomore year and we talked all the time because we sat next to each other. But we lost touch a year ago, and now we have a classs together. I decided to be bold and message him on Facebook, and we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was it Love, ever or convenience?
I was in a relationship with a guy for about 15 months. We met each other on the same project . After our 4-day meeting, we agreed to date each other and he told me that he liked me from day one of our meeting. I never...
Anonymous
(36-45) How long to wait to reply to ex
Me and ex broke up about a month ago (he choice), it was only a 2month thing but I was totally sure about her. she's been seeing another guy for a couple of weeks and we've been texting, sometimes I get a bit emotional on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Was he testing me to see how I'd respond?
I was involved with a guy I met in summer and he told me he was in love with me after about a month. So, in early December he asked if I could come over to his house sometime and spend time with him in his town and I said...
SmileGirl95
Xper 7 Age: 30 Need some help here dissecting the male brain :D
We're penpals on an online site and we get along rather well. And since it's a penpal site, he talks to lots of other girls as well. He claimed that I wasn't like the rest of them, and told me I was his favorite girl,...
firefly91
Xper 5 Age: 35 Can a guy have feelings for 2 women?
Me and a guy were dating for about 3 months. He was dating other women and I other men. I wanted to fully commit to him but didn't want to put all of my eggs in one basket until he made it official. I wasn't sleeping with...
intj2013
Xper 5 Age: 44 Should I send my guy friend a birthday gift?
I really liked a guy my senior year of high school several months before graduation. He liked me too, but I was too shy to do anything about it, so nothing ever happened between us. This happened 2 years ago. I decided...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is going on here? Does he like me? Are we friends?
Firstly I will explain this guy he is very nervous and anxious, especially when it comes to girls, making it hard to tell what's going on. I haven't been friends with him that long, but talking to a mutual friend who has...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think these are just by coincidence or what?
So this guy in my college has been acting weird. I got into an elective class late, where he was already in the class. He's the most confident and outgoing person I have ever seen. I think he has a girlfriend. The way I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is the so called "spark" so important...
I was seeing this great guy for about 7 months until yesterday that is... He decided to end things with me because he didn't feel that "spark" between us his example being that he felt like he should miss me even if I've...
Anonymous
(36-45) Feel like I can't compete how do I change this ?
I really like this guy who I've been talking to for over a year we text, webcam, call each other flat out all day everyday most days . even said the L word to each other jokingly. I have never talked or clicked with...
women-venusmen-mars
Xper 6 Age: 32 Why is he acting this way?
I actually really do care about this guy. I've known him since high school, and feel absolutely blessed to still know him during my college years. recently though, things have felt differently. We WERE going out and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did he end things so quickly?
I met this guy online and we hit it off right from the begining. The first time we spoke on the phone, we talked for 5 hours. The next day we also talked for 5 hours. The conversation was fun, full of laughs and...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Deal breaker or not?
I've been with this girl for 4 months now. Here's a breakdown of our relationship. Month 1: Good, got somewhat close but nothing crazy. Texting and calling quite a bit. Month 2: Argued a bit, but still knew we liked...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I react too harshly to what happened between myself and a potential new love interest?
First, I am 52 was widowed almost 3 years ago and I've began dating in earnest. I was introduced to a lady and we seemed to hit it off. We became intiment at about 2 months. Around that time I ruptured my Achilles tendon...
BrianP1960
Xper 4 Age: 65 