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My boyfriend and I were sitting next to each other with our phones and a message popped up on mine from a group of girls that were trying to organise a hiking trip. My guy asked casually who I was chatting to and so I told him, he wasn't controlling or anything just curious cause the phone kept going off every few seconds

I said to him out of curiosity just because I'm nosey lol - Who was the last person you messaged with other than me?

He said Melissa. (Melissa is an ex girlfriend who he was only with for 2 months about 2 years ago. They stayed friends since then as she had supported him with some personal issues he was having back then, so I can understand why he has kept a friendship with this particular ex.)

They never meet up physically and only message each other every now and then. He showed me because he must have sensed that I was feeling a little uneasy. I could see they only message each other a few times every few weeks and their is absolutely no flirting going on. She knows about me and he has asked her to come over with her kids for a BBQ and to meet me so there are no secrets floating about.

When he said he last messaged Melissa I casually asked how she was, he said she is okay, going through a little bit of a hard time and he passed me the phone and said to read the messages so I did. She drives trucks for a job and there were messages about how she had recently had a truck accident and was out of a job, feeling a little depressed and now has to go to court for it. He messaged to her that there may be an opening for a truck driver job at his work and that he would try and help her get in at his work.

I did ask him if why he felt he needed to help her and he said she is a friend, I'm just being nice. I asked if he still had any feelings for her and he said NO and then I asked if she got a job there they would be seeing each other every day at work, is there a risk of them becoming close again, he said NO. Should I be worried

Choice 1: Johnathan

- Lead vocalist of local rock band
- Has a very dark sense of humor (likes offensive memes 😂)
- Overall nice dude
- Hasn't really dated since 8th grade
- Junior in high school
- KNOWS I LIKE HIM (and said he likes being single bc it makes things easier, but thinks I'm "pretty cool")
- STILL FLIRTS WITH ME THOUGH (shoving, playful banter)
- WE BOTH HANG OUT OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL W/ FRIENDS STILL

Choice 2: Devante


- Aspiring SoundCloud rapper
- Pessimistic
- Also has a similar dark sense of humor
- Good friends with Johnathan
- Recently broke up with girlfriend a few months ago, and is still trying to get over her
- Junior in high school
- HAS CALLED MY EYES PRETTY
- HAS COMPLIMENT MY SHIRT BEFORE
- ALSO IS FLIRTY (sometime engages in playful banter, but not as often as Johnathan does with you)
- SHOWED ME HIS AWESOME POETRY SKILLS

Choice 3: Caleb


- Extremely, extremely nice
- Has a weird, dry sense of humor
- Doesn't date much
- Senior in high school
- TRIED TO GIVE ME HIS Halloween GIFT AFTER I SAID IT WAS CUTE
- HAS GONE TO WORK LATE JUST TO HELP ME WITH SOMETHING AND DRIVE YOU HOME
- TEACHER THINKS WE LIKE EACH OTHER (lol she was suspicious of you guys when you were alone in the darkness of the computer lab that connects to her classroom. But, nothing happened of course!)