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So I'm always tempted to sleep with guys like on the 2-3rd date. Is that bad? I mean I like sex and if were making out and we can have sex I'll have sex. But I feel like if guys don't take me as a girlfriend material after I do this, more like a friends with benefits material, they never ask me to be theirs. Is it because I slept with them to soon? I'm talking to this new guy and we are about to go on our 2nd date , should I make him wait a while to have sex with him,? But also what if I make him wait too long and he leaves? :(

Sunday Night
Him: Hey, just got back home. Hope you have a safe drive and dont drive crazy. I enjoyed hanging out with you. I hope to come up to your city soon so we can spend some more time together and I can get to better know you because I really like you! Be safe, see you soon.

Monday Morning
Me: Thank you for your hospitality. I enjoyed myself as well and I would like to get to know you better too! Let me know if you do come out here or if you want me to come out there to you and hang out again. Have a good day!
Him: Hope your home safe today!
Me: Huh? Did you get my other text. Anyways thanks!
Him: Just got it, sorry phone wasn't getting text. Realized when my buddies came to my pad looking for me. lol. Let me get back to you later after not busy working. Hope you get some rest and relax after work. :)
Me: Okay no probs. Have a nice work week!
Him: Just finished. Worked from 9am to right now (11pm). I'm so exhausted. I'll get back to your text tomorrow. I hope your catch up on your sleep. Hope you're well. Good night.

Tuesday
Me: Aww, hope you're getting some rest too. Get back to me anytime! Good morning to you!
Him: Yeah finally a break. Going to be working crazy next two days before I drive to desert Thursday. Hahah Thanks! Well I'm glad you got some sleep. Hope you're having a good day. Can't wait to come up there soon.
Me: ( Inside joke of ours) Be careful driving to the desert. You plan on really coming out to my city? I'll believe it when I see it. :p I'll talk to you after your desert trip or whenever you get back? Text me when you're done working and what not. Get some sleep!
Him: Nothing
Wednesday: Nothing
Thursday: Nothing

What happened? I'm so confused... When we hung out at my hotel and at his home. No SEX or kissing. He didn't initiate anything. Not going to lie, I'm a little sad. He's a street guy- I didn't judge and I only looked at him as a person. Now I can't even keep a street guy. I feel like shit.

Why hasn't he texted me? Is he blowing me off? Went to meet a guy 2 days ago next state up. We had a great time. We were alone twice, and the sexual tension was sky high but he didn't do anything... not even kiss. He always playfully nudged me. He bought my food twice and then he cooked for me the last night I was there. He kept making future plans that he was going to come to my city and wanted me to show him different things. I kept asking him if he's sure? He said he is a man of his word. He just has to finish his business start up first. He does follow his word 90% of the time. After I left, he texted me he had a good time and hopefully he will come out to me soon because he really wants to get to know me and really likes me. I replied I had a great time too and if he does come let me know, or if he wants me to come out again i'll be happy to do that as well. Next day, he texted me hoping I got home safe. I said yes and asked him if he got my other text. He said he just got it, his phone was acting weird. Then he said let me get back to your text after im not busy working. I said okay. He texted me that night that he was exhausted and he will get back to me tomorrow again. I said ok. He responded mid day again saying he finally got a break and it's going to be crazy working the next two days before he drives to the mojave desert Thursday morning. He said he's glad I got sleep and hope im having a good day and he can't wait to come up there soon. I replied for him to make sure he eats and sleep. I put an inside joke of ours in and then i said i'll believe you will be out here when I see it. I told him i'll talk to him after his trip or for him to text me after he comes back. He hasn't texted me since then. It's been 2 days now. Was "see you soon" a nice way of saying nice meeting you but im not interested? I'm hoping im just blowing it out of proportion but he's the one putting in all the effort. I'm just laying back to see what happens. Why make promises if you're not interested?

Went to meet a guy 2 days ago next state up. We had a great time. We were alone twice, and the sexual tension was sky high but he didn't do anything... not even kiss. He always playfully nudged me. He bought my food twice and then he cooked for me the last night I was there. He kept making future plans that he was going to come to my city and wanted me to show him different things. I kept asking him if he's sure? He said he is a man of his word. He just has to finish his business start up first. He does follow his word 90% of the time. After I left, he texted me he had a good time and hopefully he will come out to me soon because he really wants to get to know me and really likes me. I replied I had a great time too and if he does come let me know, or if he wants me to come out again i'll be happy to do that as well. Next day, he texted me hoping I got home safe. I said yes and asked him if he got my other text. He said he just got it, his phone was acting weird. Then he said let me get back to your text after im not busy working. :) I said okay. He texted me that night that he was exhausted and he will get back to me tomorrow again. I said ok. He responded mid day again saying he finally got a break and it's going to be crazy working the next two days before he drives to the mojave desert Thursday morning. He said he's glad I got sleep and hope im having a good day and he can't wait to come up there soon. I replied for him to make sure he eats and sleep. I put an inside joke of ours in and then i said i'll believe you will be out here when I see it. :p I told him i'll talk to him after his trip or for him to text me after he comes back. He hasn't texted me since then. It's been 2 days now. Was "see you soon" a nice way of saying nice meeting you but im not interested? I'm hoping im just blowing it out of proportion but he's the one putting in all the effort. I'm just laying back to see what happens. Why not respond now?