Search Results: is it love or infatuation

Is it true love, or just a crush?

Hi. Please, give me some advice. I was 12 year old when I met and started to have some feelings towards an much older man. He acts, talks and looks a lots younger then his age. I have no dad issue, as my parents are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Letting a girl you attracted to her when she's taken but not coming off as desperate and eager

So I like this girl at work. She has been with her boyfriend for a long time and I know she loves him but I know she likes me as well. She also lives with her boyfriend and in a way I know and accept what we are. This is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I love him. I'm just not in love with him.

Have you ever been in a relationship but, fell in love with someone else? Whats worse on this situation. Admitting to your partner about being inlove with someone else? Or never admitting to the person that you really...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Boyfriend not sure if he wants to be with me but still loves me.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We went on a trip to Italy for a month together and came back a few days ago. The trip went well except for him not being affectionate; he treats me more like a friend...

Sourdough8

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

Is it true love, or infatuation?

So I am gay, and I have an amazing boyfriend. We have been dating for a while, but we don't get to see each other very often. Maybe once every other week. We text and Skype as much as possible, but it doesn't feel like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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What does he mean by this?

Dated this guy for about 4 months,we jumped into it way to fast didn't really get to know each other on a deeper level ,we just clicked ,I think it was more infatuation ,he told me he loved me .we broke up because of a...

t1572

Xper 5 Age: 50

Dating

Guy that flirts even though I have a bf?

There is a guy I met recently who I have only treated like a friend. I was not flirtatious with him. However, he has expressed to me several times that he like me..a lot. He is very flirtatious. I have told him numerous...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How do you know when you're in love?

The other night I was talking to a new friend and she asked me if I had ever been in love. I was caught off guard and said: "I think so". She then smiled and said: "Then you probably haven't". How do you guys...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

The first time you feel in love, or thought you did?

Everyone experiences love differently, so it can be tricky to really understand the symptoms of the love bug when you are infected. Most people mistake their love's and more than usually their first loves as infatuation....

wallflowervulpine

Xper 6 Age: 30

Relationships

Differences between infatuation and love?

What are the differences between infatuation and love. Which one is better.

kylemccormick

Xper 3 Age: 33

Relationships

What is the difference between love and infatuation?

Confucius16

Explorer Age: 31

Other

What is the difference between...

Infatuation and actually being in love with someone ?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What's the best way to get him to give into his feelings?

I have a co worker who over the past few weeks I have started to develop feelings for and him for me as well. It's all happened suddenly. We have not acted on these but have spoken about them and how amazing it feels just...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Differences between love and infatuation?

My partner of 5 years left me for a much younger girl (16yrs old, he's 21). She smokes (although I think he's making her give up), she has piercings (which he hates), she's basically one of those little emo girls with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Girls does this mean it's over?

If a girl rejects you... She said that she's not really interested. I asked her if she liked another guy. She said: It's not really that... I'm not really interested in that kind of stuff right now. I messaged her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do I tell her that her break up isn't that big of a deal?

My friend has fallen into a depression because she and her boyfriend broke up a while ago. He cheated on her. Yes, it does suck that it happened but they've only been dating for four months. There is no possible way that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it love or infatuation?

how do I know the difference between if I am in love with a guy or just infatuated. i'll be honest we're not even together. we've known each other for a month or 2 and I can tell he likes me back. he just hasn't done...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it love or infatuation? Or something else?

Here are my "symptoms": I very often get huge butterflies in my chest, not my stomach, when I text with this girl. Not so much when I talk to her in person. I have almost entirely lost my appetite since this began. I now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Going our separate ways it the only solution?

Ok, I've asked another question related to this topic earlier but I've gotten new information I need to sort out. Basically, my ex and I have been going at it, on and off for over 3 years, broke up after 6 years of...

johndoe90

Xper 5 Age: 49

Relationships

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I am not talking infatuation. I am saying a genuine connection that is instant between you both. One where you feel like you have known each other forever? You just know that this is the person you have been searching...

Anonymous

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