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so me and my guy been dating for almost a year and most of the time we have arguments is because i get angry easily. im more of a serious person and he's more of a joking type person. he jokes around and say things and then i get either offended or angry.. and then would tell him off and walk away or hang up the phone.
but sometimes i get angry over little things and stupid things... and i realize it after we have a talk
thing is, he would always try to communicate with me and telling me that he's sorry (even if he's not in the wrong sometimes) and he loves me and bla bla.. i do have mood swings and i tend to get angry just like that but he's just been so patient with me. he would try lighten the mood by telling jokes or if he gets mad, he would just talk to me about it and then he hugs me and kisses me.
sometimes when i get pissed, i try to walk away from him but he would always grab me and hugs me and doesn't let me go.. and says he loves me and doesn't want to lose me
does all this mean he truly does love me?
i have trust issues coz of my past and so its just hard for me to trust people fully...

I seriously can't decide which it is. Her ex boyfriend once said that she's "been smoking too much dope," but I feel like she isn't mentally stable. Why? Well...
*She spaces out a lot. When you speak to her, it's like talking to a wall, and you have to repeat yourself again and again. If you try to have a conversation with her, she stares at her phone or goes off into her own world.
*She has extreme mood swings, for all days of the month. She goes from being neutral, to angry, to crying, to goofy, and back again. One moment, she'll be spaced out and doing her own thing. The next, she's slamming stuff around and saying, "Fuck you!!" She then cries for a few seconds (it's not really a cry at all - more like a pathetic little weep), before returning to her usual self.
*Often mutters random things. After a long day, she'll talk to the dog and say random phrases here and there. If someone is actively having a conversation with her, she'll suddenly start cursing at them.
*Add on to this. ^ She used to curse her (ex) boyfriend out, then beg him not to leave. She screamed at him in the streets. And, no, it wasn't just a normal argument. She was speaking incoherently.
*I can't describe this, but, when I look at her, it's like she isn't completely "there." Her mind is someplace far away.

Honestly... Is this normal, the influence of drugs, or a mental disorder? I'd really like to know, because I cannot bare this shit any longer. She's been like this for YEARS (slipping in and out of it at random intervals). Please help.