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Search Results: no spark at a date
Best way to react to a girl who tries to put you in the dreaded "friend zone"?
I recently got dumped from a 9 month on/off relationship. During our first "on phase" last fall we dated pretty seriously but I wasn't sure about her in the beginning. I started liking her more and was willing to commit...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to handle an encounter with the ex-girlfriend?
This questions is directed to both the guys and girls. Just wanted to get your opinion on an encounter with my ex-girlfriend last night. Before I get into the details, the background to our previous relationship is...
pakman822
Xper 5 Age: 39 What does it mean when a guy calls you (or something you do) "sweet"?
There are sparks flying between be and this guy, but we're both a little awkward because (1) we're both sort of shy, (2) neither one of us dates much, and (3) there's a conflict-of-interest clause at the office. Anyway,...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What's the difference between asking for space and a break?
I want to see what some the guys and especially girls think about the difference. From what I've learned, girls 4/5 times will be the one asking for the break or space (one common example; guy is comfortable and...
paragiveadamn
Xper 5 Age: 40 Does this girl still like me or what? Am I wasting my time?
Sorry about the length but I REALLY need some opinions.. Alright so I was seeing this girl for about 3 months. We've known each other for 3 years though. During those 3 months things were going amazingly. We were crazy...
zohmaigod
Xper 4 Age: 34 What does not feeling that "extra spark" mean?
I met an older guy (30 years old, I'm 26) online and we talked for a few weeks before I suggested we meet for coffee. We proceeded to go on 4 dates in a week and a half. The banter and chemistry both in emails and in...
Anonymous
(36-45) Sometimes we guys practice a bit of double standard!
Okay... Don't get me wrong... I am not self loathing nor I am a super hot guy. What I am saying here is more of an admission and not really a question. I read here some guys asking ladies if they would date them if they...
Meedo
Yoda Age: 49 Ex is trying to talk to me after 2.5 years of silence.
Basically my ex and I dated for 2 years. Our families had been friends since he was young. We had a wonderful relationship for the first year, best friends, being our silly and goofy selves..chemistry out of this...
Anonymous
(36-45) Please cure my self-destructive behavior?
It seems like I have a hard time having standards. To tell you the truth, I am new to the dating game. I know there are plenty of woman out there. And yet, if a girl gives me a date, no matter if I felt like there was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why am I only attracted to older men?
I don't know but ever since I was 13 I was always attracted to guys in their 30's, 40's and 50's, not super old and wrinkly kind though but real mature men no matter how much I try I just don't really get attracted to...
MiaChan
Xper 6 Age: 37 He's a player, but I like him?
so there's this guy I dated a few months back. our relationship didn't last very long, but I liked him for a while even before we dated. we broke up. and we didn't talk as much as we use to. he dated my best friend a...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I've fallen out of love with my girlfriend
I have dated my girlfriend for a little more than a year. We recently got back together from a month-long break because things weren't heading in the right direction. I was happy to be alone for a while. Then, my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Mixed signals - what is going on?!!?
About a month ago a guy and I dated for about 2 months, we saw one another often, he had been really open about himself but I found it difficult to reciprocate but everything was going well. Out of the blue he broke up...
Anonymous
(36-45) The kiss test ?
So you like your new boyfriend or girlfriend they are really attractive, been going out a few times or just on your first date and then you kiss and their is nothing, no sparks, no whatever you want to call it, do you...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did the spark just die? Or did we just both change?
Long story short, I dated a girl for 17 months, we dated 15 months straight lovingly and stuff. But near the end we both became over whelmed with school work, and stressed about our lives and such. And we split, but she...
Anonymous
(36-45) So... What's up with the "good-looking/great guy/good guy friend that's never had a girlfriend" type of guy?
You hear girls talking about their good guy friends mostly... kinda being in this category I've gotten this more than once... "Oh you're a great guy! don't ever change!" "Oh you're the best." "Oh you're such a good guy!"...
drummerdude25
Master Age: 35 I can't get over my ex! what's wrong with me?
Me and my ex had dated for 8 months, and everything was going great. He helped me out of an abusive relationship (the guy, let's say, was a little to affectionate) and made me feel like I was important again; he loved me...
Anonymous
(30-35) What's a 'spark'?
I think there is really something that I'm just not getting. I've been on more than one date where we both seem to have a really good time, conversation flows with no uncomfortable silences, everything seems great. Even...
Anonymous
(36-45) Hear me out - I am not trying to sound like the typical ex girl creeper.
OK, so I met this guy, Josh, 3 years ago. He pursued me, but I blew him off time and time again - over the course of 3 years. I was still young, and although I was very interested, I wanted to be young before having a...
Anonymous
(36-45) How much space should I give him?
I just broke up with my boyfriend. Before he asked me out we had been best friends and we were as close as we could get. Some things went on with both of us and the people we were dating right before we got together and I...
BeccaAloysia
Xper 5 Age: 35 