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Around the world there are many different types of religions and churches who claim to speak for their particular god, ali, budda etc etc (we will call all them God for purposes of this post) and governments tend to pressure even when they claim to stay out of religion so who is right?

The churches basically tell the people what to believe as a way to control the general population of a area but are they really speaking for god or more what they want to shape society as? For that matter do churches/religions even consider what god planed anymore?

For this post lets discuss god vs church vs government on sex and legal age. There are other examples but this is just one that becomes a hot topic subconsciously.

In years past couples where married in early teens , girls where considered woman once they started to cycle (gods timer) but in modern times people live longer and the plant has a over population issues so churches push no premarital sex and governments enforce legal ages to slow population grow if the government and churches have faith in God then how can they say god is wrong, or do they just claim faith to gain power over the people? They teach us form young ages that certain things are morally wrong for example when you first read a girl becomes a woman when she starts to cycle and legal age many of you probably instantly considered it wrong, illegal, morally deprived and so on because that is what you where told, so then do you think God is morally deprived since he gave girls their cycle at certain ages? (different ages for girls as they are ready) Not that I would be out looking for that but more the fact that the church and governments try to control it with blind faith is disturbing to me.

There are growing number of people who are no longer religious because they no longer have faith in the church's who abused their power and look more for science to find answers

So I guess the real question is which one is right an all powerfully

I felt compelled to ask this.

Its a known fact that in this era kids as young as12 or 13 are losing their virginity, increase in teen pregnancies, people changing their partners as easily/often as changing clothes, getting divorced left and right, cheating on their spouse/partner etc. The situation wasn't really so bad, around 2 decades ago.

The way I see it, its all about SEX now (I'm saying this in general, and not to any specific gender). It appears like people take pride in the number of sex partners they have had in their life, and don't really care about establishing an emotional bond with one person. I know I may probably be blasted over here for saying this.

Its so rare now to find someone in their 40s or 50s who have been married to only one person, having a happy life with a couple of kids, and not having cheated any time.

So are humans actually losing touch with their human sides, and not bothering much about human emotions or emotional bonding? In other words, is sex the main thing that people want today (as much of it as they can have), and don't want to be 'bogged down' by emotional attachment?

P. S. I know some of you are going to say things like 'independence', 'choice', 'freedom' etc. but i don't see how those can't be achieved while still bonding emotionally.