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I have been into a one-year relationship with my boyfriend. During the half year, I didn't know he doing something fishy.

June: My boyfriend went to another City to pay his full rent because his friend suddenly left him. He also said to me that he has to go to another city to earn money.
July: I didn't know he was using tinder and meeting a girl named Dianne. This girl offers him a house to live in into that city.
August: He went back to me and ask to live with him. As his girlfriend, I said Yes. He left all his things and cars in the house. But during this month, there was a girl who keeps calling him every single day, he named it as Dianne girlfriend." I asked him why he put girlfriend, he said its nothing just typo error. Only a friend in another City. We paid half of the house bills.
September: The whole of September, he didn't go back to the City and only said that he has to sell all his things because he has no more money. During this month we still split bills.
October: He went back to me but only for a week. He got very mad at me because I wasn't able to pay my share for the rent because I have to pay my overdue loan.
November: I kept calling him but he never picks up my call. That time, I get irritated and I keep calling him at 3 am. He picks up his phone finally and got mad saying WHAT DO YOU WANT?
A day after, there was a girl named Dianne who chatted me on facebook. She was asking if I am having a relationship with him and my boyfriend lied to her that we already break up.
She said, they are just friends and she doesn't want to destroy a relationship. But I wonder why he reach out to me and been spying and even said I shouldn't tell him
I get very mad when I knew he was living with a girl because he lied to me that he was living with a boy. I did not want to pay the rent because of this and he yelled at me saying, USELESS GIRLFRIEND.

I still have small money left should I still pay for the house rent or not?

OK, so my sister has a girlfriend who goes to christian church every week who admitted to her mother this weekend that she is having sex with some guys for money.

My sister knew she was having sex with more than one guy, but not that she was getting paid for it.

Since her friend hangs around boys from upper income families who's kids have money provided to them, she told my sister now that she's been caught, that she does it for the money that she gets from the guys.

Why would she do this if she goes to church?

Can you do this sort of thing and still be a christian?

What if she keeps doing it?

Is it because her parents make her go to church when she doesn't really want to, or is it because she doesn't really believe that the bible says what she is doing is wrong?

Her mother was able to open her daughters phone somehow and discovered some texts from more than one guy asking her how much she would charge to preform certain sexual acts for them, which they named, and she told them how much.

It made her mother's jaw drop and first become suspicious, and then after doing more checking, found a large number of condoms in her daughters purse.

Is this none of her mothers business since her daughter is 17 now?

Should her mother be checking her daughter's phone and purse at that age?

Shouldn't her daughter have some privacy now that she is an older teenager?

What is your opinion on something like this? Don't be afraid to be honest!

So my daughters are 18 and 20 years old. 20 year old isn’t going to college and just got fired from her last job because they eliminated the position about two weeks ago. The 18 year old isn’t going to college and got fired from her first job about a month ago. My husband and I work monday-Friday (7am-7pm). They both say they are applying to jobs and going on interviews (which not sure if I believe but I have no proof to say they aren’t other than no jobs). My husband and I are extremely busy during the week and it sucks that on our only two days off we have to come home and clean the entire house. They are two very capable girls that can clean around the house. They can shadow my husband and I and go from there. Their cars are always parked in our driveway. Since they have so much time to sit around the house the least they could do is help out and clean the whole downstairs and upstairs. In exchange I would give them money to go get groceries or spending money or whatever but only if it’s up to our expectations (they have no money for food). They both act like bratty dramatic 12 year olds. They are giving me an attitude and don’t want to do it but I can literally make them starve. It’s ridiculous they hide in their rooms on their phones all day while we clean on the weekends. I don’t think it’s too much to ask for an 18 and 20 year old that has nothing else to do to help clean around the house so my husband and I can actually have a day off. My husband thinks we should hire a maid and I think it’s ridiculous because our two daughters sit around this house doing nothing can help out or they can get out. My husband thinks I’m being harsh with that statement.

Here’s the thing my boyfriend cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship by sleeping with another girl and making out with another girl. He would sext other girls on Snapchat. He would ask other girls to be his girlfriend. He changed and went to therapy and let’s me have access to his stuff. Now he’s asking me to let him have girls that are his friends. I went through his phone in the past and any girl he considered a friend he would sext them. He is desperate of girls attention. He’s mad at me because I won’t let him have girls that are friends because he would just try to sleep with them and hence would just cheat on me again.