Search Results: build up confidence

Girls why do you like putting down guys so much?

There are a lot of girls around my school and they have built up a lot of guys' confidence just to knock them back down. Whenever I ask why, they just shrug it off and walk away. Any ideas?

justice43093

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

Will breaking through my shell get easier?

Ok I have been gating out talking to more women mostly at the store , coffee shop, laundry mat ,park and places like that. Since the bar is not the best place for me were else can I go I am 34 and a single dad. Since...

bibmichael1

Xper 3 Age: 49

Trying to build confidences to talk to women. What are good topics to talk about?

Ok I am going out tomorrow my kids will be at there mom's her once a month vistashion any ways how do I go up to women get past hi what should I talk about or bring up I am 34 in to car's in a big way , love my kid's, I...

bibmichael1

Xper 3 Age: 49

Am I the only black person who doesn't like it when people say "You can dance because you're black." ?

This irritates the hell out of me! I think a lot of people say it to make themselves feel better about their lack of dancing skill. Anyone can dance as long as they have confidence, rythm, and passion :) Just look at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am just going to give up ever meeting any one

I ask question about how to meet women I keep getting negative answers mostly my low self confidences or how fat. I had a really crappy child hood my family sucked I have been fat my whole life I have TRIED ever thing to...

bibmichael1

Xper 3 Age: 49

How to gain confidence and build self esteem honestly?

I can't fake it and make it. I try to but when the time comes to talk to the girl I'm nervous as sh*t. Even in life its self with anything I'm just very low on esteem and confidence, so how can I really build them up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it seem that guys have to do so much for women?

I mean we have to: 1) Approach 2) Make ourselves look confident, even if we are not as confidence its not something that you build over night. It is something that you build over your life time. 3) Put up with their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I ask him on date?

Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me? So I'm a freshman in high-school and I know for a fact that one of my friends (a junior) wants to ask me out but is kind of shy. Should I make a move or wait for him to...

Adoc2015

Xper 3 Age: 31

Hood rats and how to avoid the cheese ?

Many people have seen the movie 'The 40 Year Old Virgin' by now and we are familiar with the term and concept of 'hood rats' which are people you practice relationship things on to build up confidence and technique for...

Cloibne

Xper 5 Age: 48

Do you freeze up when approaching?

at the bus stop there was this very beautiful girl with grey eyes. when I walked to around where she was standing, there was a bench in between us, so she decided to sit, and I sat down at the other end. i gave her a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Those of you girls who frequent clubs/ bars what would you do?

Hi, I was wandering those of you girls who go to the clubs how would you react if a guy said a funny pick up line and briefly after invited you to have sex, what would you say? do? say he said, did you know tonight word...

diegoD

Explorer Age: 41

What to do when trying to get a girlfriend?

I need tips on how to get a girlfriend, because I am clueless when it comes to a lot of things relating to girls? 1.) When first pursuing a girl what are things that I should do to build attraction? 2.) How often to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why Do People Drink So MUCH?

It seems like whenever something good or bad happens, most people think the solution is to get drunk. Why do people think they can only have fun drunk or drinking? I've had more fun than I can ever express, and have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm 18, in college, never had a girlfriend. I think I'm doing it wrong.

I'm a naturally lonely person. I'm pretty shy as far as going up to someone and talking to them from across the room but I do talk to people. I honestly don't have any friends. I know people and we are pals but I don't...

greasycat

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating is irrational?

Do you ever feel like the whole process of dating is sort of irrational? What I mean by that is that you put yourself out on the line with the possibility of embarrassing yourself for the chance to start what may develop...

TurbulentDan12

Yoda Age: 36

Dear guys, why the HELL are you so insecure?

It's a well known fact that confidence is attractive, so why is it so common for girls to have to "build up" guys? I swear, a massive amount of guys are quite simply too insecure to be attractive, and therefore don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm not a very confident person. Does this ruin my chances at a relationship? If so, how to be confident?

I don't have high self-esteem. But, I don't whine at all. I think it is not easy to have high self-esteem all the time unless the person is an arrogant douchebag. I'm starting to feel the reason I don't have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do l attract men and women who have problems (help)?

I must doing doing something wrong because I always attract the people who seem to always have under linging problems,some l have met threw college and work and they have since become my friends. its also been the same...

michellejep

Xper 3 Age: 56