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My friend Amy had this issue with her now fiance's mother for nearly 3 years. They just got engaged last month.

They started getting along from the start but when they were 4 months into their relationship, apparently a family member spreaded some rumors and made the mother and a couple others believe her. Then her bf's mother would proceed to gossiping to others about her, not invite her to reunions anymore, trying convincing her son to dump her and instead date an old ex girlfriend again... getting to the point of directly insulting her (calling her a golddigger, disgusting whore, how she'll never be good enough and literally said ''quit with the crocodile tears already'' as she was in tears).

My friend would spend time crying during that time and was very stressed out, couldn't explain what exactly she did to her. The guy at some point stood up for her and he moved with her.

The lies of that person were discovered and the guy's mother has been trying to make it up to her. Supposedly they reconciled just this past Sept. My friend explained that all though she forgave her, invite her to their wedding, they get along now and even wished her Merry Christmas along with the present (the mother did so too), she feels the wound is still fresh and needs a bit more time to completely get over it.

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been online dating for almost 3 years. I love him so much and we consider our love and relationship to be real and serious well he says I'm his first girlfriend ever and that he never had a relationship before me. Well I remember him on another website (the one where we met from) before we started talking dating flirting and sending out flirt/love emojis and saying how awesome she is. When we first started he said she was his ex and that they made an agreement that when they found someone in real life that they'd break up. Ok, fast foward to 2 years of us being together he says that I'm his first and that she was a *pretend gf* and that made me think what am I to you then? He said I'm real and that I'm his first girlfriend ever he made me insecure, jealous, and made me have trust issues. I used to bring it up and get angry at him everyday for it til the point he said that same things over and over to be that I was his first that I calmed down but every once in a while it still eats at me and is in the back of my mind. Like today I was showing him my new laptop and I said "let me search your username on google to see what we'll find" then I seen what I saw a long long time ago that pissed me off his Yahoo answer profile with him flirting w/ that same girl. I couldn't help but click it and got annoyed which said he was last active 4 years ago. He was telling me to get off but I got upset and over reacted and was questioning what a pretend gf/date is. He hung up on me and I was calling him back and we talked a little. I got upset and started crying. I asked him if I messaged her and asked if you guys ever dated what would she say he said "Idk". I don't care it's just the fact he said "pretend gf* and said I was his first girlfriend.. It doesn't make any sense to me? I don't understand. What do you think and did I overreact or would you feel the same way I do? He just hung up on me and said his phone was dying even though I was crying. I think he fell asleep.. I feel bad now