Search Results: casual or serious dating

What are Good or Bad reasons to break-up?

I know most of us who've been in a relationship would rather not have to live or even feel the break-up part. But it's part of dating. Every beginning has an end. So what would be a good or bad reasons to break-up with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How do you tell your heart "no"?

There's a girl I care about, but she just wants to be friends. I don't have time for a serious relationship right now, and now she's gone abroad and won't be back until November of next year. If she finds me waiting...

TylerKaye

Xper 5 Age: 39

Society & Politics

Boyfriend doesn't want to break up, but doesn't want a serious relationship?

I've been dating my boyfriend for six months, but we got in a big fight because we only hang out once a week (though we sit right next to each other at work). He said he feels like he can't make me happy. When I asked him...

srndipity

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Why didn't he take me seriously? Part 2

When I would mention it to him, he’d make it seem like I was crazy and impatient and that he wasn’t being weird - but he was. A couple of weeks later, we were barely talking. I didn’t want to sound like a crazy person...

ChristinK

Xper 5 Age: 41

Guy's Behavior

People who don't know you thinking that they have figured you out.. are you as sick of it as me?

I actually hate this very much. It is particularly bad when the person decides to tell you how to improve yourself per se. I was in a situation like this just the other day with this guy who I met about a week and a half...

candyisntarealname

Xper 5 Age: 31

Family & Friends

I had sex with my friend...now what?

I have been friends with a great guy for years. We have always been open about having a "crush" on each other but the timing has always been off (dating other people, etc.) We have always flirted and talked about "if only...

Lilly6727

Xper 5 Age: 44

Flirting

I don't know what to do... should I let them slide or

These are different incidences. He lost his phone at his friend's house one weekend and I didn't hear from him for five days, thought he was just ignoring me and was crushed. He had a Facebook which he barely uses but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Define dating for me.

I was talking to a co-worker of mine the other day, and he was telling me about these two girls that he's interested in. He was talking about the pros and cons of each one, and he said he was unsure of which one he wanted...

KryHeart

Xper 5 Age: 36

Flirting

24 next year, and have always been single: should I give up hope?

I've never had any relationship of any kind with a guy. No flirts, no making out, no dating.. and I'll be 24 next year. Guys just never seem to be interested in me. I know some of them, have some male acquaintance, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you break off a casual dating relationship?

Unfortunately, it's harder than it sounds and I really need help. I''ve been dating this guy casually but exclusively for about a month. We aren't official (i.e. we don't introduce each other as boyfriend and girlfriend...

stupidstupidme

Xper 6 Age: 33

Other

Did this guy lead me on?

If a guy tells you he wants to see where it goes when you are still casually seeing him what does that mean? To me it felt that he meant he wanted to take things slow, take the time to get to know me and see how things...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

Exclusivity: what does it mean?

I recently slept with a guy who I've been seeing for less than two weeks. I had told myself I would never sleep with a guy unless we were officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Last night got the better of me. Now I am a...

stupidstupidme

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

Is he interested? Is he confused? Or is he just forgetful?

I was casually dating a guy which ended 6 months ago. It seemed to just fizzle out with a combination of him not responding to me at times and me no longer initiating contact. Then I moved to a different state for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm not sure what to think. Am I setting myself up for disappointment?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to not be so fickle when dating/how much to accept?

In the past I have had a habit of dropping men really quickly and for little reasons. No one has broken up with men- I have gotten the fade out after a first date. But I have always been the one who ended every serious...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How long should it take to become "official"?

About three weeks ago, I started dating a new guy. We've hung out a few times and things seem to be going well so far; we're both having fun. He's very sweet and affectionate and very understanding when it comes to taking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it weird for a guy to mention kids early on?

I've been sleeping with this guy for the past couple of months. It's been pretty casual, nothing too serious. Last night he mentioned how he was wondering the other day what our kids would look like. Is it me or is that a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why not be in it for the long run?

lol people confuse the hell out of me wth all these miscellaneous relationships; I get it if your just interested in sex, but as for everyone else who wants an actual relationship, why do you act like you only want the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What's the matter with this guy? Shy? Indifferent? Disgusted?

Hi. I noticed this guy who was coming to some work functions recently. We don't work together directly, in the same organization, or the same building. I noticed him and thought he was cuter with each day; I also...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Does he want more than a casual relationship?

I'm seeing this guy and we hit it off just fine, but there's this one thing that bothers me. He told me that he just wants casual dating as of right now. I'm okay with that, but it bothers me because he seems more like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)