Search Results: confusing behavior by a guy

How and what to talk about with a girl?

I've known this girl for years. I used to be a shy guy but I've recently made a social change (within a year recently), so I'm a bit more outgoing with friends and have a better social life. I'm even managing well with...

hobbes203

Xper 4 Age: 34

Anyone here have experience with infuriatingly baffling guys?

I’m already over this guy but since I stumbled upon this site, I figure I might as well try to satisfy my curiosity. Not too long ago, I developed a crush on a guy who I first noticed because he stared at me a lot, as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Confused! Why does he keep looking at me!

OK, so I know what to look for when a guys likes a girl, I have read everything I could get my hands on yet I still can't decipher this one guy. Were in college together and had a few classes together last semester, he is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my married colleague acting weird?

I’m confused. I am a single woman in her 30’s who has not been a relationship now for a year. A few weeks ago started a new job whereby I share an office with three other colleagues, 2 of whom are married men and one of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I think he thinks the grass is greener. All his mates are single so he wants to be too.

Ok so me and my ex was dating for 4 years.. We spilt 3 months ago cause of pity arguments.. Basically my ex dumped me by text.. And won't speak to me for 3 weeks. When he finally did pick up the phone to me he told me he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this jerk jerking me around?

Here's the deal. I met a guy about 3 weeks ago who has acted very into me but his behavior is confusing and I am trying to figure out if I should even pursue this or just cut my losses now. He acts very into me and then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Suddenly, he doesn't answer my texts, and doesn't talk to me. What is up with him?

A few months ago, after being in his class for two years, I got to know this guy. He had a girlfriend, but the day after I met him, she broke up with him. He was so upset for a few weeks, but now he tells me how much he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: would you be creeped out if.....

you got a message from a girl that was clearly not meant for you to see...but was saying she thought you were adorable, describing your behavior towards her (in detail because you know how girls like to add...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is ex-date weird around me at work?

He asked me out with his "heart jumping out of his shirt" as he said. I was new at work, we lightly talk but I see he kind of likes me, he takes another job but comes back a few months later, makes scope moves, asks me...

HurtConfused

Xper 5 Age: 43

This guys showing up in my dreams...please help? (sorry its so long)

to make a long story short, I liked a guy from my English class and was trying to ask a girl friend about his behavior and I accidentally sent him the message instead of her...and it had in it that I thought he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I'm about to give up dating him. Confusing guy behavior?

I have been dating a bloke who's only a year and 20 days older than I am. We see once or twice every week. Things are okay but I'm sure they could be better if he really wanted to be serious about us. One thing that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is going on with him?

hi! I have a friend who had a girlfriend up until about 5 months ago (they broke up because of long distance). I have known him for about a year and recently have developed feelings for him. i told him how I felt and...

preeto

Xper 5 Age: 42

How to NOT flirt without coming off as a mean person?

I'm a friendly person. I love to talk to anyone and everyone and have an "ocd" where I MUST make eye contact and give my full attention when I talk to someone. I laugh easy, smile often and am not shy to talk to the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is he sending me these mixed messages? What's with the blow hot blow cold deal?

I had a question about this guy I am interested in at work and vica versa. We have been flirting with each other for 3 weeks now. He was very pro active about it, looking for ways to strike up a conversation with me and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when a guy is really into you, then suddenly says he wants to stop?

I was seeing this guy, long distance. We talked everyday and for hours at a time. We had plans to spend a long weekend together at a mutual friend's house. He had excitedly text me and said he scouted out which room would...

LoveyDuck

Xper 5 Age: 44

Is he really interested...or am I fooling myself?

I've been dating a guy since the beginning of May and things seemed to be going well. Near the end of August I asked him to meet for coffee and shared my feelings with him on how I enjoyed the time we spent together and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I am confused by a guy's behavior?

This guy will come over and snuggle with me at night sometimes (like once a month) but he only ever really texts me when I'm drinking or when he is drinking. I would think this is a hook up, except he has only ever...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am mentally ill. Or am I not?

I guess so. I wasted 10 months of my life trying to fix my deepest problems by communicating to a girl with a really tragic life. My feeling was telling me that If I fix her, she fixes me, we stay friends and the joy goes...

Anonymous

(36-45)