Search Results: deciding between two guys

Flirty coworker, help! Don't know what I'm doing.

I got out of a 4 year relationship about a month ago and I didn't think I'd want to date but I'm very attracted to a coworker. But he is sort of a nerdy, STEM, gamer type which means that he gives either mixed signals or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever seen an ex (on purpose) after a very long time ?

Hi, I'm trying to read my ex intentions. I bumped into him a few days ago and we decided to go for a drink tonight. We hadn't seen each other for five years but we kept talking on Facebook. It was awkward at first and...

streetmonkey

Xper 5 Age: 41

Is he flirting or not? (It's a long one but please read)

So there's this guy and he has a girlfriend at the moment (I think) and he seems to be quite into her cause his friends are teasing him and he spends a lot of time with her on breaks between classes and sh*t. Or at least...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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I can't decide between the two of you?

Question is easily googled and answered but I feel mine is alil different (as everyone does seeing as it is) So a girl I've been seeing for awhile told me today that she can't decide between me and another guy? She says...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Question is easily googled and answered but I feel mine is alil different (as everyone does seeing as it is) So a girl I've been seeing for awhile told me today that she can't decide

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Should I read this as "he's just not that into me"?

I went on two great dates with this guy, and we had been texting every single day all day (literally) between the dates too. He seemed VERY into me, making plans for the weekend of November first and even into December...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How do I get over my fear?

My problem is probably a pretty common one. Generally speaking, like most guys, I tend to prefer to date girls whom I've become friends with first. That doesn't necessarily mean I have to be friends with them for years or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you deal with a boyfriend/girlfriend who tends to be more controlling?

Hi guys, So my boyfriend means good and I mean good and we both crazily love each other... We just can't seem to get past issues lately. We had a fight two nights ago because I had met a guy friend at work who him and I...

Imasmileygirl

Xper 5 Age: 34

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How to turn him down without just saying I like someone else better?

So... I've gotten myself into quite an interesting dilemma. There's this guy, David, who I really like and who really likes me but I haven't told him how I feel because he lives two hours away and I never get to see him....

scissorschik

Xper 5 Age: 31

Past pains haunting me. PLEASE help

I'm a 27 year old man, and I was involved in just one relationship in my life. It was for 2 years, when I was aged between 21 and 23. The reason for breakup is simple. She actually cheated on me with her own uncle. I had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Wronged or even? is my boyfriend a hypocrite?

My boyfriend & I have been together for 3yrs. He never really paid much attention to me.Resents me for some mistakes purposefully does things to get me back so I know "how it feels" etcI love him obviouslyeven though its...

Ammo186

Xper 5 Age: 40

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Am I in the friend zone, or do I just think I am?

How often does this happen? My situation is this: my guy friend and I have known each other for 3 years but have never been super close because of his Avoidant Personality Disorder. Yet this summer things changed, we had...

gummy_bears

Xper 5 Age: 36

She left me for her roommate (any help greatly appreciated!)

So this girl I'd been dating for the past few months left me yesterday for one of her roommates. I had a gut feeling she had feelings for him, but I figured he never had any interest in her. He's a pretty good looking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is a 23yr old boyfriend too old for me (17yr old girl)

I was introduced to this guy by one of my friends (they work together) at a party. He was lovely and everything and we chatted for ages. I intentionally didn't flirt with him because I wasn't sure if he had anything going...

lauralaurajane

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guys: Do you like it when a girl pursues you?

I'm seeing an ex again. We dated several years ago and I pursued him then, but we never became serious after six months of seeing each other. We've recently reconnected and chalked up the past to it not being "our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I horrible person for choosing someone else over my ex ?

Im trying as much as possible to move on without feeling guilt, but I keep failing. My story is that I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he hurt me a lot , but he has also learnt many things along this...

Itsreal

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why did she do this to me?

I met this girl through two of my friends they told me she would be a good match for me cause I'm a really nice guy. I met her and me her hit it off right there we were very comfortable around each other so then we all...

Toku3000

Xper 2 Age: 40

Flirting

Miscommunication and awkwardness with male acquaintance

So I knew this guy four years ago when we worked together. We also went to the same school (but didn't know each other) and know some of the same people. He used to chat with me on Facebook about his problems and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Told my good friend how I feel -- can it ever really be "the same"?

So, I did the dreaded deed of telling my friend (we'll call him B) how I feel. Let me preface by saying we have a complicated history. I've been asked over and over again if we were dating or if I would date him (based...

Anonymous

(36-45)