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This guy who is a really close friend of my sisters kissed me the last time I went to visit her. We had all been at a bar (where he'd been paying me a lot of attention) and called me over to his car, where he told me to come closer and then kissed me on the lips out of nowhere. Then he told me he'd see me the next day. He came to my sister's the next day like he promised, though he didn't feel well. However, I was intoxicated and never got to talk to him about it. I went home the next day.. The next time I visited a few weeks later, he came over to my sisters again, where my sister noticed that he was watching me the whole time. We went out to this bar, and he stayed with me a lot of the time. I even asked him to go to the bathroom with me and he waited for me. Because I was a bit intoxicated, I admitted to him he was "too cute." He asked what that mean and I repeated it, and he smiled and said "thank you, so are you." He had driven and dropped us all off at home, and I asked him to roll his window down. I asked if I see him again and he said yes and said "give me a kiss." I did (eagerly lol) and he joked that he probably had lipstick all over his face. However, I did not see him the next day, and I went home. I don't know what to think... Im starting to get a crush on him but im getting impatient. My sister said its obvious he likes me, she has known him many years and said he doesn't just go around kissing girls like that. but if so why hasn't he made a move?

A few months ago my boyfriend and I were fighting a lot and my friend was having problems with his gf. We confided in each other and got close. I got a crush on him and that turned into feelings.

Things are good now with my bf and I'm mostly over my feelings for my friend except that he still pops up in my thoughts too much. Not like in a fantasy way, just like when things remind me of him or stuff we've said. I want this to stop but don't know how to get him out of my head. We haven't talked for a week because we're on break and I've enjoyed getting my head cleared some. Next semester I have to see him every day and we are in activities together where I have to deal with him. I want to just be neutral around him, not ignore him but not care about him either. How do I get there? He will keep acting friendly but I can't do that. I just have to kill any feelings I have for him. He definitely notice if I try to ignore him.