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The guy I’m seeing introduced me to female best friend and I do not like her one bit. best friend. First off he never told me his best friend was a girl every time he mentioned ash, I presumed he was talking about a male.

I went in with just thinking it doesn’t matter that she’s female it’s just his friend. But as the more we started drinking in the bar the more she was hanging out of him stroking him and it was so embarrassing. As all my friends brought it up how inappropriate this girl was being towards my boyfriend. My boyfriend saw I was furious and told me she normally doesn’t behave this way.

My personal opinion is that people of the opposite sex that are both straight cannot be friends without some sort of flirting or one of them getting feelings. Any guy friend I’ve ever had has tried to sleep with me or flirted.

I really like this guy but I’m not going to be made out to be some idiot and not going to put up with this girl either. Have you ever been in this situation or are you the best friend?

Is there ever a time where it's too LATE to say "I love you"? It's been going on almost a year and a half--and he keeps claiming he only sees me "as a toy" (but his actions speak louder than words)! He also asked if I had feelings for him; which I SAID I liked him a lot. Since then, he's acted a lot "nicer" and more worried about it ending etc. I'm scared that my friends with benefits/casual boyfriend can't truly love someone because he witnessed a divorce... and each parent remarrying, as well as his brother getting married (who now avoids him).

His past girlfriends have been short-lived, cheated on him OR acted like they really didn't want sex with him anymore! He's also kinda has a BAD reputation; so it's really hard for him to hold on to a girl for more than a few months... but with me--it's standing the test of time. He only seems to know how to use people. Now, if anything we're "using each other" or so it looks like that from HIS point of view. To my family, it looks like he's my actual boyfriend etc.

In reality, I'm in love with him. I feel like telling him I loved him will scare him off. That being said--I feel like he needs to know someone cares about him. It's kinda like a service in which we have sex with each other and it makes us happy... BUT I have similar interests with him... I don't know what to do. I'm NOT going to end this because it's still pretty fulfilling for me :) ! Neither of us really want marriage--EITHER. So, has it gone on too long to tell him how much I really love him?

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