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So I got a message on a dating app... to my shock it was a hot young chick... when I asked her age she said 18.

At first I thought it was a catfish as she was very attractive and also the fact I have 15 years on her ( I look good for my age and can pass for 25)... anyways I was flattered and just kept chatting then she asked if we could meet up.. I still had doubts of her being a catfish so played along... until she video called me and it turned out she was infact who she said she was and tbh I was shocked.

So after chatting for a little while on video, she revealed a few things about herself one being she was a virgin and also that she wanted to meet up/maybe come to mine.

I being a red blooded male at first was like sure... of course a hot young woman can come to my place... but the more I thought about it the more I started feeling a bit crap about it... there is definitely a naivety about her yet in other ways very mature... bookish/student.

I knew if she came over, it would lead to things happening and then I thought do I really want her first time to be with some older guy that was based purely on a physical attraction... it should be with a guy she is dating and means something... so I declined her in the end and told her why, she said she didn't care about that stuff but I stuck to my guns and as much as I would loved too I knew I couldn't live with it.

that's not to say she ain't gonna meet some other dude twice her age and regret it... but at least I will know it wasn't me.

So thoughts medal for passing up a hot girl because it was the right thing to do? or should I have just given in and invited her over?