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7 months ago there was this guy i really liked. i saw him once or twice before, i realised i had a crush. we were both in a external event that happens once or twice every few months, but can see each a couple times to zero each week. Fast forward, there was a camp and i noticed him looking at me a few times (5months later) So i thought there was a small chance of him liking me and mostly everyone in that event group knew i had a crush on someone.

He dmed me on instagram after finding out i played the guitar too, and we talked. he told me he knew about this crush thing i had and wanted to know who was it. we played his whole crush game where i guess his and he guessed mine. long story short he actually liked a close friend of mine in the event with me and not me (i had a lot of hope)

the fluttering of my heart disappeared, it was like every time i looked at him i couldn't help he admire his beauty and how handsome he is? i felt so, warm when i saw him.

recently another guy in the event caught my eye after THE close friend started pushing me towards him. i had some vibes that he might like him but it was just his overall weird personality. he was cool, but very egotiscal/ appearance wised， he is cute tho. (i find everyone cute?) and he's pretty tall and an ideal person with his personality (sometimes offensive) he's attractive.

but i soon realised that this wasn't going to work. he ignore my texts all the time, we streak in snapchat but barely; and we only spoke like a paragraph with one another in the last 5 months.


here's the thing; one senior guy from my school actually was pretty cool. i thought that he was really nice and friendly and he even said so himself, he calls me 'gurl' and we talked only once in real life, mostly over texts and snaps. he has a few girlfriends? the ex is still on his account with his current girlfriend. very confusing signals. but i'm deciding to focus more on academics instead? what should i do?

Hi, I know this is gonna sound kinda of weird but imagine you were in my shoes and knew him 6 years and thank you guys so much for your help whatever you answer may be. :)

So I've liked my guy best friend for 5 almost 6 years now. (Yeah a long time). A lot of stuff happened between us we stopped talking for awhile because his ex girlfriend didn't like me and then apologized after they broke because he knew what he did was wrong. (This was last year) Me and him were/are friends with benefits have been for 5-6 years. ( I liked him before we were having sex fyi). He had told me repeatedly that he doesn't date/like black girls or find most of attractive ( he's white and I'm black) but yet we still have sex. Me and him have a strong connection and he's aware of it too. We had sex two weeks ago. And last night we were on the phone till 3am talking ( got him sleep deprived so he would talk lol) He told me that he finds me attractive but he wouldn't want to date me because of a "gut" feeling he has. He said that he's not ashamed of me because of my skin color. He said that if we did end up dating he wouldn't want to put a label on it. Basically saying he wouldn't want to ruin our friendship. But I feel like there's more to it. I think he still knows that I still have strong feelings for him. And now he's trying to date another girl who has a boyfriend by the way
I know what I said is not enough insight on to what's going on. But I don't know if I should keep trying and wait for a miracle (even though they don't happen everyday) or give up and possibly end our friendship in the process.
I don't really know why I stayed liking him for so long. I have had a boyfriend through our friendship but I still had feelings for him.

Sorry it's so long but please answer I would deeply appreciate it :)

So, there is this guy I have a crush on, and he has been showing signs of interest (Ex. compliments, helping me with tasks, teasing, hanging out, etc.) . He will start dating soon, (he hasn't had a girlfriend before) and I was wondering if there is a chance he would choose this other girl over me? (If he had to choose between me and her.) I've only known him for 2 years and she has know him since elementary. (We are in high school). But she has dated some of his friends already. (Dated, broke up, hung out, dated, and broke up again.) I heard my crush make fun of her for liking him a few years ago, but they are still friends.