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I feel like he's unintrested but I don't have the heart to tell her. Me and my friend are both into Asian guys but whats different for her is that she strictly ONLY goes for korean guys, I also feel like telling her to broaden her choices of men but she's REALLY into Kpop so I don't want to even go there with her. Her crush is a native korean whos shy. He never smiles when they talk, he goes straight into the boys locker room when she tries to approach him and the conversations seem quick but he does openly share what he likes/dislikes when they talk. Which is why my friend wanted to buy him chocolates, since in korea they give gifts and his favoriute is chocolate. When she asked me if this was okay I quickly nodded being dumb and forgetting that she hasn't talked to him in a month because she was doing other stuff but was afraid to approach him again as well. I'm thinking that now he probably already forgot her so it would be weird if she gave him a gift. Also other girls come up and approach (he is very good looking) him and I've been noticing that ever since my friend post poned in talking to him this Asian girl has constantly been approaching him for home work help and for the first time I've seen him smile with a girl. So it seems like he's only into Asian girls and not into black girls at all. I'm to afraid to tell my friend about the suspicions I have because I've been in this situation before where the Asian guy I was going after gave a more positive response to this stranger Asian girl who had the same cultural background. So I know how it would hurt her to feel like she can't get a guy because of her race, and you can't change race so in a way im feeling like she has to at least become friends with him, the guy that I was going after completly destroy the idea of staying friends.., I know this sounds selfish but I don't want her to ever go through that.

There's this guy; whose family is pretty close with mine. He has changed a lot since the last school year. Great quarterback and carries himself differently than most HS boys; dresses sophisticated, never says vulgar things. He's never had anything to do with girls, since his dad is so strict on him and football; also he's a little shy, barely has anything to say most of the time. A guy friend of mine told me that in the locker room after we won the game that he was pumped and said do you know what I wanna do? And they all said what and he said get laid. Lol then they all screamed hell yea. It was a surprise to most of them, because he never says things like this. Well anyway, I've never really had a bf so I was considering trying to talk to him. I feel like an advantage would be our families, but I'm not sure about that. Maybe his mom could talk to him about it? What do you think I should do?

So there's this guy who's the same age as me, and we both go to the same high school. We recently met, through our friend, and we've known each other for about a month or so, but we got really close over the past 2 weeks, after spending a lot of time together at a football game. At first I knew there was no way he could possibly like me, because he told me he had a crush on this girl (lets call her kate). So he would text me a lot on advice on how to get kate to like him, and i would give him advice from a girls point of view. Unfortunately, kate didn't like him back, but he was still determined to win her heart. After that, he always started waiting for me at my locker, and he would eat lunch with me and always talk to me. He even took my sweater from my locker and wore it saying it was perfect for him. I would ask him why he was hanging around me and not kate, and he would just say, oh idk. Also, we would oovoo eachother a lot at night. One day he invited me to his house, but i never got the chance to go. I don't know if he's just hanging around me because i'm trying to help him with kate, or if he likes me and is just using kate as an excuse to always text and hang out with me.