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Met this fun guy 4 weeks ago, he added me 9 days later on facebook (and I never say yes usually but this time I did). Then he started talking, opened up about how he wanted to see me again, and all of a sudden I suggested to meet him, asked him to my place. After that there was no return for 3 days of “blizz”. All over each other... said to much, gave out all our secrets, planned things we never should have and could not get enough. I have to tell you staight up, I never open up like this... I’m on the break all the time, and have a big wall infront of me... but I broke all my rules!
On the third day evening we met, and talked... and the “we are going a bit fast, we should slow down” came up. I had of course thought it all that day... but this feeling is breaking all my standards and rules... and now I find myself forceing myself into pulling back unwillingly... and thinking.. dont call, dont say this, be cool, dont push, dont ask... situation. So!!! I know I should be cool, calm and collective and dont give a damn... he should right? I just want it to be effordless... not these rules or !!! Im lost hehheehh

I've known him for half a year and we were officially together for a little more than a month. When I first met him, he told me he doesn't really use Facebook. He has it and he doesn't really use it. He's more an instagram person. He told me that he doesn't even have the facebook app on his cellphone. Two weeks ago, his phone broke and we were talking on Instagram only. He told me to add him on facebook since it's the only way for us talk when he's at work. I added him on facebook but he did not accept me of the day. I sent him a message on facebook, he read it, but did not reply or accepted me as a friend. I sent him a message reminding him to accept me as a friend. He did after when I asked him twice. He finally sent me something on facebook but when I reply, he reads it, and then ignores it. I thought it was extremely weird because he's the one who told me to add him on facebook. I also found out that this guy is on facebook almost every hour every day. I thought maybe because his phone was working. Apparently, he's on facebook as much with his phone working or not.

His phone is now working. We're back to texting. After having him on facebook, I found out that he goes on facebook and ignores my texts. When he's at work he does the same thing so obviously, he's not even really busy at work if he's always on facebook. In the past, I thought he was busy at work and that's why he's not getting back to me but apparently, he has the time to be on facebook every hour.

Am I thinking to much or this is shady?